Merdeka

Selamat Menyambut Kemerdekaan yg ke-51!

Semoga kita menyelami kemerdekaan yg sebenarnya.

"Nape aku pecat secretary aku?".

Dua minggu yang lalu merupakan ulang tahunku yang ke-35 dan mood-ku tidak terlalu baik pada pagi itu. Aku turun untuk sarapan dengan harapan isteriku akan mengucapkan dengan penuh gembira.

Selamat Ulang Tahun suamiku tersayang!? atau mungkin saja dengan sebuah senyuman sekadar mengucapkan selamat ulang tahun untukku.

Waktu berlalu tetapi isteriku tidak mengucapkan selamat pagi.
Aku berpikir, ya, itulah isteri, tapi mungkin anak-anakku akan ingat kalau hari ini adalah hari ulang tahunku. Anak-anak datang ke meja makan untuk sarapan namun mereka juga tidak mengatakan satu patah katapun.

Akhirnya aku berangkat ke bilik tidur dengan perasaan penuh kecewa dan sedih. Tiba di pejabat, secretary ku, Janet, menyapaku "Selamat pagi Boss, Selamat Ulang Tahun!" Dan akhirnya aku merasa sedikit terubat mengetahui ada seseorang yang mengingati hari ulang tahunku. Aku bekerja sampai tengah hari dan kemudian Janet mengetuk pintu bilikku dan berkata,

"Apakah tuan tidak menyedari bahawa hari ini begitu cerah di luar dan hari ini adalah hari ulang tahun tuan...mari kita pergi lunch? hanya kita berdua!. "

Aku berkata "Wow!, itu adalah perkataan yang luar biasa yang aku dengar hari ini... "Mari kita pergi".

Kami berdua pergi lunch. Kami tidak pergi ke tempat di mana kami biasanya lunch,
tetapi kami pergi ke tempat yang sepi. Kami memesan 2 gelas fresh orange dan menikmati makanan tengahari kami.

Dalam perjalanan pulang ke pejabat, Janet berkata, "Tuan tahu ini adalah hari yang begitu indah,...Kita tidak perlu kembali ke pejabat kan". Tidak perlu, saya pikir tidak perlu." jawabku. Lalu dia mengajak saya untuk rehat ke apartmentnya. Setelah tiba di apartmentnya, dia berkata, "Tuan, jika tuan tidak keberatan, saya akan pergi ke ruang tidur dan berpakaian seksi sedikit".

"Tentu saja boleh" sahutku dengan gembira.

Dia pergi ke kamar tidur dan kira-kira enam minit kemudian dia keluar membawa kek ulang tahun yang besar diiringi oleh isteri, anak-anakku dan sejumlah rakan kerja kami sambil menyanyikan lagu Selamat Ulang Tahun.

Aku hanya duduk terpaku di sana ??? Di sebuah sofa panjang, aku telanjang tanpa sehelai benang...

**I got this from Yann

Blue Wedding Details

During my wedding preparation, I always dropped at here.
Sangat2 membantu utk dapat banyak idea for the wedding... interms of wedding setup and arrangement and how ur wedding will look like....

Ok, today I post the BLUE color wedding details. Actually, 2-3 hari lepas, aku terfikir2, color apa yg best sekarang nie, till aku lintas kat satu area near my house and I saw light blue canopy and white. Cantik sungguh! And when I received the e-mail from my frens tentang wedding Melisa n Malique, Yes, it's true... Cantik sungguh warna biru... kan?

So, here the ideas..boleh pilih ... invitation card in blue, hand bouquet in blue, flowers arrangement in blue, ceremony setup in blue, wedding favors in blue, cake also in blue... and the most important things, bride n groom in white...and others should be in blue! It's nice la..! Walllaaaa.....

Wedding of Melisa n Malique Too Phat

I got this fr my e-mail... sweet je wedding dia interms of the wedding theme la.. yang lain2, i tak berkenan wokeh... (if u all ada dpt gmbar2 lain - interms of culture n islamic thingy).

Wedding nie kat tepi laut di Bali. Wedding theme is in Blue n White... I think this color combination also is in right now... cantik kan setup wedding arrangement dia.. but, it's too western... tapi ala2 romantik gitu... tapi I'm thinking cmna la nak pakai baju cenggitu depan tok kadi...heheh..haisshhh...

Hari ini

Dah 4 hari berlalu...maknanya hari nie dh masuk hari ke-5 arwah atuk meninggal.. mcm sedih plak bila gi bilik atuk tapi dia takde... xpela, rindu atuk. bila atuk xde, baru terasa. Al-Fatihah bt atuk. Atuk kan suka ckp sembang itu ini..pasni dh tak dgr lagi la...

Mmm..aku xnak sedih2 lagi... aku rasa atuk mmg patut pegi... sbb keadaan atuk yg uzur... biar atuk rehat bt selamanya... dan kita semua akan menyusul. tapi xtahu bila.. mungkin bila2 masa dr sekarang. Hanya Allah yg Maha Mengetahui...

Hari pertama, buat tahlil kat umah ayah... since atuk meninggal kat sini...
Hari kedua & ketiga, tahlil kat umah maksu... kat Bangi...
Mmm..tak lupa juga tahlil buat arwah mama dan semua umat Islam...

Semuanya dah selamat dah... Biarlah semua tinggal kenangan... Aku hanya mampu berdoa.
Mulai hari ini, aku tak nak sedih lagi.

Sekian.

Hari yang sedih..

Hari Selasa, 26 Ogos 2008, semasa usia 86 tahun, atuk (nenek sebelah ayah aku yang kitorang semua panggil 'atuk') telah pergi ke rahmatullah dikediaman keluarga aku.

Yang menyedihkan hati, 2-3 malam sebelum pemergian atuk, banyak kali dia suruh aku tido umah ayah...tapi aku xboleh...sbb keja...

Pagi Selasa (kebetulan aku dan suami, cuti) aku dpt call dr adik aku yg dekat umah..suruh balik sekarang jugak (my husband house n my house hanya lebih kurang 70m sahaja).

Aku baru bangun tido, cpt2 mandi...tapi bila sampai umah lebih kurang 10.30 pg, doktor telah sahkan, atuk dah takde bt selama2nya...

The things yg aku terkilan sgt, nape mlm tu aku tak nak tido umah ayah...?dan masa aku balik dr umah ayah tue pun, aku tak ckp pun dgn atuk aku nak balik... sbb aku tahu, kalau aku ckp, mesti dia takkan bg balik....

Aku redha...at least, aku la yang mandikan jenazah dia...dia meninggal dlm keadaan yg senang sgt, iaitu dlm tido...

Dan yang paling penting, dia sempat tgk aku kahwin...sbb itulah yg dia selalu ckp dengan aku... "Kawinla cpt2 sket...atuk nak tgk..takut tak sempat..".

Al-Fatihah bt arwah atuk... semoga atuk aman dan dicucuri rahmat... Amin.

Semalam yang menyakitkan hati!

Kan saye baru sebulan lebih sket je kawin...tapi semalam...

sakit hati...

Sakit hati dgn suami saye...

Rasa mcm nak tampar2...benci....!! haiiissshhh...saye merajuk...

Pastu, dia pujuk....

Ok, dlm marriage life, mestila ada asam garam rumahtangga kan?

Baru saye ceria... saye sayang suami saye...

Sekian, terima kasih.

Cupcakes!

Lately nie, asyik nak makan benda yang sedap jek... nape ek?
(~Oh! Itu mungkin mmg sudah asal usul aku yg nak mkn sedap jek.. sbb tu gemok... xpe, at least I got curve... and I don't need to be in size '0'. Saje nak sedapkan hati sendirik~)

Tak tahulah...cmna la org2 boleh pandai betul mereka benda2 yg sedap n cantik cenggini? They are so gifted with full of ideas... kan? (nie, di tujukan kepada Shila n Anita)

Mmmm, I wish I can develop kepandaian membuat cupcakes nie... it's a good business kan? But, maybe not... I wish to expand for my wedding business je bt masa skrg....

Neway, I love cupcakes... the beautiful design on it, the taste were so Yummy...make me so craving of cupcakes today!

2 hot 2 handle!

She may look a tad too toasty thanks to her recent Mexican vacay, but Katherine Heigl impressed us in the sophisticated silk ensemble she sported at the third annual "Hot in Hollywood" gala.
We're a little tired of Lauren Conrad and her constant pouting, but we can't deny her incredible sense of style. The tight green top, the flirty black skirt, and the classic Chanel purse are absolutely perfect
We no longer have "McPheever," but we're simply loving Katherine McPhee's fetching top and hot $800 Louis Vuitton handbag.
"Bones" bombshell Emily Deschanel delivered a sexy smile while popping a pose in a purple dress on the red carpet.

Ellen DeGeneres and her wife Portia de Rossi looked absolutely lovely at their wedding last weekend. Hopefully the dynamic duo will be together forever.

"Ugly Betty" vixen Vanessa Williams continues to put women half her age to shame. This 45-year-old is simply flawless!
Former MTV VJ Daisy Fuentes wowed in a fabulous white gown at this year's ALMA Awards. Can you believe she's 41?!
She just turned 50, but Madonna will undoubtedly mesmerize the masses for the next million years.
Katie Holmes was caught cheating on her fashion friend Giorgio Armani when spotted with her tantalizing Hermes tote in NYC. Hey, even Armani can't deny this bag's beauty.

Taken from here

Wedding Photos - Nikah

** Yang ni bukan gambar photographer wokeh..gambar sendirik!

It has been a month but I haven't upload my nikah photos... Hihih... Rasa mcm baru semalam jek the nikah day...So, i have more time today... the photos was an original photos without editing... again (i've been mentioned this things again n again), I will paste the photos after I receive the softcopy ya Cik Puan sekalian....

My wedding was a simple wedding that have been attended by close frens, relatives and my dad's frens... The feeling of nervousness, sampai skrg masih terasa..eceh ceh ceh... it was a great feelings...

To the bride-to-be out there, here are some advice that perhaps can help u during the day...

• At first, I would like to wear a corset... after discussion with my wedding designer, my nikah would be at Masjid... so, it would be more proper to have tudung n lining for my outfit...besides, corset will make u 'sesak nafas sambil meng control ayu...' and things will end up bila ur wedding pics dah siap... (dlm gambar akan nmpak muka berkerut2 sambil menahan nafas..agagaga)... so, buat keputusan bijak....




• If ur tudung accessories dah 'meriah', find the serkup and tudung with simple design... the serkup perhaps will be without beaded... and the chiffon beaded tudung that I bought at Jakel, really make my day...




• Call your make up artist and ask their opinion on how ur tudung will look like... REMEMBER, they will not call you (perhaps, some will call and some will not). So, be prepared!




• Just be yourself! Smile and be ready for ur big day!

Oh, before that, why I choose Masjid for my akad nikah? I've found this... since this would be my akad for forever... it's really help me to make a decision for my venue of the akad....

"Sebaik-baiknya biarlah majlis akad nikah dilakukan di masjid atau surau. Hal ini disebabkan tempat ini luas, terpelihara daripada perhiasan gambar atau patung yang membawa kepada unsur syirik. Selain itu, ia juga akan memudahkan lelaki untuk melakukan solat sunat nikah dan sujud syukur setelah diakad nikah. Ia juga bagi mengelakkan percampuran antara lelaki dan perempuan bukan mahram dengan bebas. Jika majlis dijalankan di rumah, percampuran lelaki dan perempuan sukar dikawal".

Taken from here

However, it's ur day..so, it's up to you!

Now, let's begin...... yyyyeeehaaaa....

Date : 4th July 2008

Time : 10am

Venue : Masjid Al-Faizin, Kepong

Wedding outfit for bride & groom : Man Kajang

Hand bouquet : Man Kajang

Pelamin : Galeri Debunga (Ratu Sehari)

Hantaran for bride & groom : Merisik Gallery

Make Up Artist : Sue Cantik

Videographer : Adan

Photographer : Candid Syndrome

Yang penting, just be yourself...! I am happy for what I have!

Robinsons Sale!

Ads fr shoppingNsales

Uuuwaaaa...mcm tak sempat je nak gi... banyaknya workload for this week!

Me & Shahril

Ha...that's him and yg comey tu ialah saye...

Ini la En.Shahril..sila abaikan muka comot...

And, it's me...

Do you know that my husband and I was born on the same year?

Ye, tahun 1982...Betul tue..., skrg we ol ialah 26 thun...yer, 26 thun masih muda, masih comey cuma..cuma...berat badan sahaja yg makin bertambah...


These pics, kitorang dpt time sedang sibuk2 membuat slide show utk majlis tempoh hari... iaitu, En.Suami ku memakai baju melayu while i'm in baju kurung...they said, they didn't recognize which one is Shahril and which one is me. That's bcoz, muka saye yg mcm ala2 laki..errghhh... sama ke muka kitorang?


Takpe, sila buat penilaian... tidak dapat disangkal bahawa saye nie mmg muka ala2 laki sket.. tapi comel kan? Gemok plak tue... So, what say u?

Tolong doakan saye!

Dear all,

Arini, tolong doakan saye...saye ada interview dgn company baru yg menawarkan gaji yg lumayan dr sekarang...sile doa smoga saya success dlm interview tersebut... saye perlukan karier...tulun tulun....

Aiisshhh..takkkoootttt!!!!!

Mission Accomplished!

Pavillion..

@ Kopi Club, Low Yatt

Isshhh..eksyen betol la..

That's mine with Leather Casing yg cantek!

This is the one yg En.Suami xsabar2 nak beli...

We bought pillow, towel, socks and lingerie..it's all mine!

Oh, and these things too... sila abaikan DVD Yoga tersebut.. I malu la..

Juga, the leather moisturizer from Coach...

Free items except for the phone..mananya free..ceh..!

Mine & Him

As I said, today I really have a mood for blogging... So, mari kita update..

On Monday, me and hubby telah pun menjalankan misi2 yang di rancang sebelum ini.

Mission : Finding a new hp & selitkan sekali kot2 boleh shopping mana yg patot!

Location : One Utama, Pavillion & Nokia Store, Low Yatt Plaza

Result : Accomplished



The pics describe everythings... We manage to have a new hp.. I choose Nokia E66 with white in color and En.Hubby with Nokia E71 in Black... Setelah penat membeli hp kat kedai Nokia tue je dh 2 jam, we all singgah makan kat Kopi Club, Low Yatt sambil En.Hubby yg tak sudah2 menilik hp baru tue..huh, ingat dia sorang ada hp baru... *wink2*

Then, time sampai Pavillion sudah penat.. I just want to drop by at Coach store to have my leather moisturizer for my white Coach handbag,,,the white handbag (the bag which I've got for my hantaran) dah absorb color from my new jeans... so dia dah jadi biru2..aisshhh..tu yg kena singgah jugak beli...

Setelah duit habis, kami pun pulang dgn gembiranya..

Sekian, terima kasih.

Spot the RED & WHITE during the wedding..

Bunga Pahar in white with Red Fidani 'Egg' Chocolate n Red tag

Guest favors in Red & White ribbon. The Fidani chocolate are inside with custom wrapper red n silver (consider white la)


The Wedding Bunting in Red & White

The red hand bouquet with white beautiful heels by Man Kajang

The hall arrangement in Red & White

The Wedding Card also in Red & White

Now, I'm a totally bored! I don't have any ideas to blog neither to do something else .. Oh,I have actually! ..but too lazy to update.. ~sigh~


Then, I come out with the idea utk di blog kan bsama pembaca2 di luar sana..heheh.. Since, this is my blog, so, suka hatilah saya nak letak gambar apa pun kan? jadi, lahirlah title 'Spot the Red & White during My Wedding'.


Sebenarnya, I have a lots more to upload the things in red n white.. but, i dun have any pics...so, enjoice!

My Hand Bouquet & The Color of Red & What is your wedding theme color?

My Colourful roses

Red roses

The pic of Red roses taken from The Knot website

Panjang betul title kita kali ini..heheh..Mmg la lambat gambar aku nie.. yela, maybe it's difficult nak meng 'photoshop'~ing kan gambar tu agaknya.. lagi2, aku nie xcantik.. ekekeke.. mmgla tak cantik.. tapi manisnya..aku la yg paling manis..ahaks...or maybe, byk giler gambar pengantin yg perlu di edit..kan?

Ok, ok..I just want to paste my lovely hand bouquet during the akad nikah time with colourful of roses and fully red roses for my reception... Here, we go.. nice ha...? But the colourful roses are bigger than the red roses... berat!

Ingat tak, aku pernah upload gambar wedding theme aku kat entry ntah yg mana... the red roses tue, similar kan? The red roses tue, taken from http://wedding.theknot.com/

I just love red..Why? ~No answer~ especially when combine with white..the RED color was so stunning... same goes with my pelamin..all the flowers are in RED! Oh, I like! I Love it!

I surf and find the meaning of the Red color. It;s from Color Wheel Pro http://www.color-wheel-pro.com/color-meaning.html

Based on the website,

Red is the color of fire and blood, so it is associated with energy, war, danger, strength, power, determination as well as passion, desire, and love.

Red is a very emotionally intense color. It enhances human metabolism, increases respiration rate, and raises blood pressure.

Red brings text and images to the foreground. Use it as an accent color to stimulate people to make quick decisions; it is a perfect color for 'Buy Now' or 'Click Here' buttons on Internet banners and websites.

In advertising, red is often used to evoke erotic feelings (red lips, red nails, red-light districts, 'Lady in Red', etc). Red is widely used to indicate danger (high voltage signs, traffic lights). This color is also commonly associated with energy, so you can use it when promoting energy drinks, games, cars, items related to sports and high physical activity.

Light red represents joy, sexuality, passion, sensitivity, and love.

Mmm, that's why I choose the color of Red...

So, what's ur wedding theme color? Red anyone?

*Avoid gold..it's outdated (ayat berani mati from my wedding designer)

Bila aku nak upload gambar kawin?

Tajuk kita hari ini ialah "Bila aku nak upload gambar kahwin?"

Ishh...bila la agaknya aku boleh upload gambar time kawin aritu... gambar gi honeymoon pun tak sempat nak upload.. malas betul la...

Nak tunggu gambar siap, 6 minggu dr tarikh submission photo online aritu...aduiiihhh..lama sungguh... dah tak meriah dah..

Kena tanya Jay dengan Udey @ Candid Syndrome... bila la gambar aku boley siap ye Cik Jay dengan En.Udey?

Semalam, ada org call... nak masukkan gambar wedding aku dlm majalah... hahaha...meletops n glamer sekejap lah ye, saye...jgn jeles...ekekeke...

Skrg, sape boleh jawab? "Bila gambar kawin aku nak siap?"

Issshhhhhhh..... lambat betol...xsabar nie...

1st Month Anniversary

Heheh..gedix tak title di atas tersebut... Actually today, 4th August 2008, genaplah sebulan aku bergelar isteri..ceh ceh.. Ok, mari kita kenang apa yg telah terjadi dlm tempoh sebulan nie ;

• Dlm masa sebulan nie, hanya 5 kali je aku sempat masak utk En.Shahril... 4 kali utk mkn malam & sekali utk breakfast... sorry dear... bekerja adalah punca utama xdpt masak.. Harap Maklum... and I'm happy he's very understanding...


• We've already hang out together and keluar jalan2 sebanyak 3 kali... as usual, tetap gi tmpat2 ketika dating dahulu... Sometimes, it;'s funny bila teringat kisah lama2.. bcoz, we've been married, tapi tetap pegi tempat yg sama...


• Takde 1 kali pun En.Shahril anta aku gi keja... nampak sgt malas..heheh..


• Semasa bergelar isteri, aku dah 'paw' En.Shahril brg2 seperti berikut :

a) TV LCD 32"

b) Duit belanja setiap minggu.. ~weeee...bestnya xpyh kuar duit sendiri~

c) Rice cooker

d) Brg2 dan harta benda yg dibeli semasa di Bali.. Mahu bankrap En.Shahril... (sape soh banyak duit..hahaha)

e) Sebuah drawer yang di 'paw' ketika di Ikea tempoh hari..

Cukuplah setakat ini... kalau En.Shahril bankrap, sape yg susah... Aku jualah yg akan susah... Anyway, selain perkara2 mengarut di atas, apa yang pasti, I'm very haapppyyyy to be your wife la En. Shahril.. Thanks for everything that you've done!