Aissshhhh.... Sunday, August 3, 2008

32" LG30 LCD TV

Nokia E71
Nokia E66

While berdua2an bsama Aril (ye, itew nama panggilan En.Shahril merangkap suamiku..aishh..), maka timbullah nafsu dan perkara2 yg boleh mendatangkan tut...****

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Ha, pikir lain lah tue kan... Nop, my husband really need a new hp since his hp mmgla dlm keadaan nazak...ishhh... org dah tak pakai hp itew lagi En.Shahril.. sila buat sesi membeli hp terbaru...so, we surf the nokia official website and found these...!

Mmmm..cantik tak? Cantik kan... ~sigh~ Sebenarnya tak cantik pun...cuma features nya sahaja yg menarik perhatian..

Menurut kata En.Shahril yang juga begitu teruja dgn sesi pembelian hp yg akan diadakan tak lama lagi, specifications utk Nokia E71 tu, amatlah menepati citarasanya selaku org yg suka gadjet2 yg pening2 kepala nie... Maka, kita tggu sahajalah sesi pembelian hp tersebut...

Selain itu, selepas menyibukkan diri disebelah suami ketika sesi pemilihan hp mana yg nak dibeli semasa online, maka dgn sifat irihati lagi jeles, aku pun nak hp gak....! hehehe...tu yg tempek skali Nokia E66 tue...kkkeeellaaassss tak? Sbb masa tgk kat website nokia tue, hp Nokia E71 dan E66 tue mcm hp husband n wife sbb dia dok iklan sebelah2 (ada ke hp husband n wife..ngok ngek tol la...heheh..)

O ya, that day jalan2... I want to have my LCD TV dlm bilik we all... so, we decided to buy the new 32" LCD TV... After sesi pemilihan, maka belilah jua En.Suami tv LCD 32" itew... we're looking for Pioneer... but they didn't have any 32" LCD TV... so, we bought the TV from LG... sbb En.Suami dah dikaburi dengan percuma pemain DVD... lantakla.. asal aku dpt TV.. *wink wink*

Tapi,....boleh ke Sygku? I nak hp itew jua... mana aci dpt pakai hp baru sengsorang... cis... nak jugakkkk... Oh, tiada jawapan dr En.Suami... (silent)

Ok Yang, sok kita shopping lagi...

SMS from En.Shahril selaku En.Suami Thursday, July 31, 2008

Tit tit, tit tit, telefonku berbunyi menandakan masuknya 1 sms...

Aha, En.Suami rupanya.

SMS : Tolong cari ubat berhenti merokok, Yang. Kalau boleh in liquid, utk makan.

Simple & tiba2 sahaja bunyi sms ini. Aikkk...dah bersedia ke nie.. But, deep inside my heart, it's good...something that we've discussed a long time ago.. at least he has initiative to do that.. And I know, keputusan utk berhenti tandanya 'he love me'...kan?

So, ada apa2 suggestion utk ubat berhenti merokok? Sila tolong saya cari ubat yang sesuai. If not, we need to go to the clinic to consult wif the doctor first... Tapi consult dgn Dr. dulu is better rite?

Saya sooookaaaa... ~Aishhh..~

Sex & The City - The Movie Tuesday, July 29, 2008

@ GSC
Deliciously Cheese Burger
Chicken Cheese Salad utk En. Shahril

Yesterday, we went to One Utama for movie time....! Yeeehaaa...

I'm so eager to watch Sex & The City The Movie...since mmg sgt2 busy with the workload at the office and my biz utk wedding 08/08/08 nie,. we still manage to jalan2...

The story is about 4 fave frens, Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker), Samantha (Kim Cattrall), Charlotte (Kristin Davis) and Miranda (Cynthia Nixon) continue to juggle jobs and relationship while navigating motherhood, marriage and Manhattan real estate. Selain itu, sila teruja dengan designer label yg ada serta wedding gown yg gorgeous lagi menambat hati... Okeh... the rest, sila pergi tonton.

"After years of living in the city, I assumed that if my friends and I ever got our fairy tales endings that would be the end of the story. But real life - always has a twist". - Carrie Bradshaw

Then, after the movie, we have our lunch at Delicious... It's on sale everywhere..but we dont have enoughtime to shop that day..so, aku pasrah... ~sigh~..

By the way, I just take "Which Sex and the City Character are you?" quiz.... and the result, I'm CARRIE... I'm a quirky, witty and every guy's perfect first date...~

Best Captured! Sunday, July 27, 2008

Dalam banyak2 gambar wedding aku, the best photo captured by Udey Ismail (Candid Syndrome) was this pic!

I feel gorgeous bergambar dlm keadaan rambut huru hara ini.... (ishh..perasan)

Xpe, i just like the natural way of doing the ~hair do~. Heheh.. The make up and hair do was done by Ayang Kamell...

Mmm... we've just finished doing our online photo selection... still didn't get the softcopy yet...will upload my wedding pics after dah dpt gambar yg telah di ~photoshop~ing kan... wokeh.. agar nampak diriku lebih meletops.. Agagaga...

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Oppss..pengantin baru nie pun nak posing jugak yer..ceh!

Time for him plak jd pengantin.. but my hubby is not his best man that day...

This pic taken during our wedding..hubby and his fren tue la..

**Updated**

Dunno what the right words to put the title for this entry... Sigh

Today, 27th July 2008, is the wedding day of my husband's best man (pengapit En.Shahril).

Heheh..

Pengapit En.Shahril yg hari ini bergelar pengantin was he colleque during his university's time until kerja pun sama2... ceh...mentang2 dia boleh hire org sesuka hati...We will attend his wedding kejap jek lagi... But, En.Shahril is still sleeping...sbb baru je balik keja kul 8 pagi td...aish... tula..sian kena keja shift...

It's ok., after I attend the wedding, then will upload the pics ya... (Ok, gambar dh upload yer)

Gambar atas tue, gambar En.Suami bersama pengapitnya merangkap kwn baik, En.Shakir namanya...dan juga gambar during their wedding..

Daaa...

Mama... Friday, July 25, 2008

Hampir 20 hari aku menjadi isteri kepada Muhammad Shahril Bin Abdul Malek.. Rasa sekejap je since we're in love 9 years ago..Yup, 9 years..dan selama 9 tahun dia ada disini..disisi aku..yg menemani saat susah dan senang bersama..

At this momment, i really miss my late mother...hope she's here...bersama2 rasa kegembiraan aku menjadi seorang isteri... kepada seorang suami yg dia sendiri tahu...yg dia lihat saat2 zaman cinta aku...dr sekolah menengah till dia pergi saat2 semua umat Islam sibuk meraikan Aidilfitri...it's almost 3 years u're not with us.. rasa mcm semalam baru berlalu...rasa mama ada disisi aku..

Ma, i really miss u...so much..I just want to let u know that I've become someone's wife rite now...Dia masih org yg sama...Aril ... yg slalu sembang2 dgn mama bila dtg rumah.. yg slalu ckp "kalau nak tackle anak, kena tackle mak dia dulu.." sounds straight to the point...tapi itulah dia, Aril...yg suka ckp ntah apa2 ntah ikut kepala dia sendiri... yg muka xmalu ckp "saya nak kawin dgn anak makcik" .... and u're just laughed...

Ma, he take a good care of me rite now...he's a good husband and he always talk about u... "Kan best kalau mak awak ada skrg..." ....When he said that, I just can't stop from cry... He promised me he will take care of me... No need to worries... I believed he can hold his promises... that's the reason why I married him...

It's almost 3 years u're not here.. We are doing well here... Ayah masih selalu renung gambar mama... Rizuan is 14 years old rite now...he's bigger and bigger and u don't worry about him...he's a teenagers rite now.. cepat betul masa berlalu...Atiqah was doing great with his beloved boyfriend..and me, I'm happy with my life as a wife..

Masa wedding hari tue, Aril buat slide show about ourself to be viewed by the guests.. Your friends are there too...The slide show buat kita (kita ialah cara aku membahasakan diri dengan mama) tak tentu arah.. Most of the guests cried..myself too...and all the families cried..Aril tenangkan myself..I just can't control myself at the momment I watched the slide..very touching... I wish you're there... to share the happiness...and the momment....

Dalam masa happy2 tue, kami masih tak lupakan Mama... kami buat tahlil utk Mama lepas akad nikah... semoga roh Mama tenang di sana...

Ma, even you're not here, it's ok.. sbb Allah lebih sayangkan Mama... itu yg kita perlu terima.. Sebab setiap yg hidup pasti merasai mati...Kita pasti akan jumpa lagi... itu yg pasti...Biarlah masa sahaja yg menentukannya... Al-Fatihah..Amin.

Hantaran stuff - from him to myself Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Ok, here are the hantaran stuff from Mr. Shahril. Yup, i'm the one who made the hantaran..since i'm the hantaran maker...heheh... xkisahla..at least we save a lot dr nak tempah hantaran dgn org lain..

I used pink roses, eustoma and baby breath.. the first planned, it should be a hot pink roses..but unfortunately, that day color tu xde..puas mencari di merata-rata...tapi xjumpa.. so, i just used the roses yg ada jer...

But, it's still look nice for me... at least I have a new Coach..heheh

"My sister, Amy (mmg mizunderstood pun) dah bising dlm post shout out...she asked me to put her name as a hantaran maker also..ok, ok, fine.. with the help of my sis, Cik Amy maka terjadilah hantaran sebegini rupa...gi la jenjalan jengah her blog ..at ur right link.. just click to her.."

Hantaran Stuff - From myself to my beloved En. Shahril

Here are the hantaran stuff (some might called it as wedding gifts to the bride-groom) from me to him. It's just a simple stuff and simple decoration. And surely it was my hand-crafted. It's done by myself with the help of my sis, surely. The idea, the stuff for decoration, u can find it for rental at my fp. Feel free to visit http://merisikgallery.fotopages.com/

Actually, I love red roses. But, last minute idea.. I would like to try cream roses with colorful sweet williams..So, here the results. I like it so much.

** Pics by Jay Farhana @ Candid Syndrome

My akad nikah outfit Sunday, July 20, 2008

I just love my akad nikah outfit. As mentioned before, it was by Man Kajang. I just love the beautiful colors beaded on the white chiffon.. i look slim in that dress.. (tula..xmahu kuruskan badan..nila akibatnya... I'm thinking to try the Herbalife..)

Just a lil update about the dress...will continue later... with a lot of stories during the wedding day...

We're married! Sunday, July 13, 2008

Yup, after 9 years relationship, at last we're married! The ceremony going well as what I've expected. I'm very happy since all the wedding preparations, done by myself with the help of my sister. Alhamdulillah...

Ok, ni rentetan my wedding last week.

Akad Nikah : 10 am, 4 July 2008, Masjid Desa Jaya, Kepong

Reception 1 : 8 pm, 4 July 2008, Taman Ehsan, Kepong

Reception 2 : 8 pm, 5 July 2008, Pusat Komuniti Tmn Tun Dr Ismail

Now, me and hubby sibuk doing our wedding pics selection by Candid Syndrome. I will upload all the pics soon ya.. and all the details about my wedding...

Fitting time! Saturday, June 14, 2008

It's almost 18 days to go! Ergghhh...pening, pening la... Yesterday, we went to Butik Man Kajang for the fitting...I love so much...the dress.. the akad nikah dress too... it was sooooo....cantik!

My akad nikah outfit is made from chiffon beaded and satin in white color with colourful beaded on it.. but during the fitting session, the colourful beaded are still not there... only can be ready by next week...

Next, it was my wedding dress for the reception...it is in white...i was sooooo....erghhh,,teruja... some more it was my first time to wear a designer dress which cost ribu2an ringgit..but it was so worth to pay a lot of money for the perfect wedding dress.. i like it so much... The dress was made from french lace with full of beaded + chiffon. Oh, again, i was so happy!

Here, the pics during the fitting session..luckily it was blur..so biar surprise sket nanti....heheh

The DIY Bride Thursday, May 15, 2008

While sitting n thinking bout my wedding budget, calculate the big things here n the small things there, I've just feeling how lucky I am!! Heheh.. it's because of my DIY preparation toward the wedding.. Yup, I'M THE DIY BRIDE..

A lot of small things that I can manage and do it by myself without hiring someone to do it! Antaranya:

1- Bunga Telur / Bunga Pahar / Guest Gifts / VIP Gifts
Yup, since I'm very familiar with this kind of things (yela, b4 this asyik buat kan utk org je bunga telur..so, this is the time) I manage to do my bunga telur etc with my own design.. custom design which created by my self.. and of course with the help of my sis..ekekek..
Total of savings :
a) RM15 (each cost for bunga telur exclusive for VVIP) x 200 guest = RM3,000.00
b) RM3 (each cost utk upah..not included the gift) x 900 guest = RM2,700.00
2. Decoration for main table (for the reception at my house)
After I've received the quotation from my Wedding Planner (yup, eventhough you're wedding planner, u still need one for ur own wedding.. dun try hard to manage ur own wedding which involve the big crowd..just to play safe), I'm thinking, why not I've prepare the main table with my own idea.. since my sis just accept the task to decorate my main table..
Total of savings : RM800
Mmm.. until now, these are the only things yg saya rasa saya boleh buat sendiri at the momment.. yup.. I'm the DIY bride..heheh

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning? Sunday, May 11, 2008

What Amie Irwanty Means ?

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated.You master any and all skills easily. You don't have to work hard for what you want.You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you'll knock down anyone who gets in your way!

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something.You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense.You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are very charming... dangerously so. You have the potential to break a lot of hearts.You know how what you want, how to get it, and that you will get it.You have the power to rule the world. Let's hope you're a benevolent dictator!

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

You are a seeker. You often find yourself restless - and you have a lot of questions about life.You tend to travel often, to fairly random locations. You're most comfortable when you're far away from home.You are quite passionate and easily tempted. Your impulses sometimes get you into trouble.

You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in.You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising.You may miss out by not settling down, but you're too busy having fun to care.

P/s- Most of the things are true!
Check yours at

http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyournameshiddenmeaningquiz

Hantaran Items Saturday, April 12, 2008

Argghh..in 1 day we manage to get all these!

After we went back from Jakarta, me and Soulmate planned to go shopping for the hantaran items. And we went again to Pavillion and bought many things in one day!

Lihat sajalah gambar..the pics describe everythings...

Hang Out! Friday, April 11, 2008

Well, seriously things are really mess up and my time is very limited due to the workload in the office and surely the wedding preparation..

Because of tight schedule and pening2 kepala, me and soulmate, went to Hotel Istana for their hi-tea buffet..Well, definitely the foods are absolutely tempting.. uwaaa..from eastern, western, southern etc sumenya enak bangat..heheh..makan sampai xingat dunia..pastu menyesal...ceh...and hotel istana hi-tea buffet is highly recommended.

Then, we plan to go to Pavillion since Soulmate belum pernah pergi lagi.. jalan2 window shopping to have a look for our hantaran items.. Well, Pavillion such a great mall to visit with a lot of designer label over there..mesti beli.. Huh..

Then, after a long walk, we went to the Kenko Fish Spa at Level 5. Heheh..once we get there, I'm so eager to try out since this is the only fish spa treatment in KL. I'm able to let hundreds of little fish eat their way to me, allowing me to have smoother glowing skin in just 30 minutes with only RM38...Which I think it's worth for my money.

But, i will update the pics sooner..coz rite now, i'm very busy doing some research for my wedding outfit yg dekat rumah.. wokeh.

**Pics dah upload wokeh.

Happy Birthday to myself! Saturday, March 8, 2008

Yup, yesterday, I've already 26! And my way to stay single will left another 3 ++ months from now...errhhh..

Oh Jakarta, here I come!! Thursday, February 28, 2008

Aha, only 2 days left to Jakarta..ahaha..xsabar nak habiskan duit dan melakukan terapi minda..Yeeehhaa.. terapi minda here, means 'all things related to shopping'!!!

Sadness

Here's the sadness things..Ms.H, Ms.R and Ms.Y, all of them are my bestfren ever, melalui detik2 yg menyedihkan when all of them suddenly planning their future with their partner masing2, but suddenly, started with Ms.H..then Ms.R and today I heard that Ms.Y relationship dah broken..sooo..sedih..and my heart start beeping, why this things happen after 3-8 years relationship...

Mine as well dah nak masuk 8 years of relationship..we're engaged, and now planning for our wedding which almost 4-5 months from now.. But, I'm really scared when heard all of my best fren, planning to engage in this year, but all things are.....BULP! Xjadi!!! This things happen berturut2..like badi i said..no, Yup, i try to not relate this matter with badi..becoz jodoh pertemuan di tgn Tuhan.. but, I'm soooo saddddd...

But, when think positively, things happen have its own reason...perhaps, this is the way for them to move in future with other kebaikan..which is we did not know...soo, my beloved frens, here's my advice..
"Take things positively..Sabar is part of our Iman..Doa n Pray are must..but not to forget, after all the sadness disappear, hey, here's come the gedix time for three of you..apa lagi? Carikla bf lain..!!!!"

*gambar kat atas tue, sila abaikan ketidancantikkan kami.. From left. Ms.H, Ms.Y, aku, Ms.R

I'm in dilemma Saturday, February 16, 2008

Yes yup, I'm in dilemma when unexpected things comes up disaat-saat I've tried to forget about the things.. when it comes to choose either this one or that one, but u don't know how to choose the right things, yup, u're in dilemma..

My story is just a simple and stupid things that need to be discussed.. Unfortunately, I cannot mentioned the things here as it is quite confidential.. But to conclude, if I need to choose between the things yg aku dah ada, aku suka tapi ada tawaran lain from other site which aku baru nak suka benda tue, but aku tak sure betul ke aku suka, sooo, which one is better? The problem is. I'm so eager nak tahu juga if I choose another one which I'm not really sure ia bagus atau tidak in future? Konon2 rasa nak challenge la.. but.. not so sure..Quite stupid ha.. Sighhh..stupid things...

Kursus Kahwin Friday, February 8, 2008

Aha..2 weeks back, I attended my Kursus Kahwin at Pusat Bandar Damansara.. What I have to said, "This place are well recommended".Ustaz & ustazah kelakar2 and the most important things, the kursus are very informative + the place is comfortable too.

After the kursus, heheh, myself kena tanam dlm hati that I need to be isteri solehah.. apa pun, b4 kawin nie yg hanya tinggal beberapa bulan dr skrg yang akan menjelang tiba, lebih baik haku enjoy sepuas hati ku.. Yeehaaaa,... Kita Enjoyyyy!!!

Shopping for my Wedding Sunday, January 20, 2008

Yea Yea.. I can't wait to do my shopping.. Heheh, to fulfil all my shopping list for my wedding ..Basically, I'm going to Jakarta & Bandung!
And here's some of my shopping list yg mesti di beli di Jakarta & Bandung:

• Invitation Card - I need to have the hardcover for my wedding card
• Guest gifts - Need to find something unique and of course within my budget!
• Lace - Uhh..xsabarnya nak shopping lace byk2
• Wedding Outfit for reception at my house
  

Going to 26!!!!? Saturday, January 19, 2008

O guwd! Masa berjalan begitu pantas and I feel just like yesterday meninggalkan alam persekolahan.. That time, I was 17 still wearing baju kurung putih with light blue kain.. And my Soulmate x habis2 menyakat & menyakat dan xpuas hati sbb xdpt saya lagi to become his gf..hahaha..
Then, going to 18, 19 (University's time and masa nie dah declare lah kan as Inchek Soulmate's gf)... Move to 20, 21, 22, 23, 24 and now.. 25..Arghhh..and this year, I am 26 already? Mmm..tuanya!!! Dan bila di fikirkan semula, hanya tggal 4 tahun saje lagi to stay in 20's then I will be in 30's era..!!! Dan yg paling x sangka, this year also I will become Inchek Soulmate's wife? Cepatnya masa berlalu... rasanya dulu masih hingusan lagi.. and maybe around 2,3 years akan dtg, saya dah jadi Ibu pulak ke? Dan juga bila melihat sekeliling, most of my frens dah kawin dan dah ada anak 1, 2? Mmmm.. yes, masa berjalan begitu pantas.. and now, I'm counting my self to...26!!!

Budget, Budget, O, Budget! Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Huh, a lot of things that I need to think during the preparation especially my budget.. well, after calculate the DIY things, yup, i can save a lot.. O ya.. for the DIY preparation, I think the hantaran decoration should be included in the list.. Total savings : Another RM1,000 for 9 hantaran..heheh..

Ok, berbalik isu budget..the things yg paling besar n the most imporant budget that we need to include in the list is : BUDGET for the caterer..Well, me n Inchek Soulmate telah berpenat lelah mencari catering which can cater for our guest around 550 pax for the reception at dewan n around 300 pax for the solemnization.. And the results are:

For the reception ceremony, the guest akan makan serentak..so the best choice ialah hidangan dome rather than buffet..To cater 550 guest with dome set , weee..it's a lot of $$$ involved.. the lowest we can get including the table + banquet chair & chair cover is RM30 per pax..and the highest price is RM60 per pax..!!! (If RM60 per pax, baik haku bt kat dewan perdana felda..wing wing***) We goes for Nasi Tomato for the menu instead of Nasi Minyak n Beriani.. Including the lauk pauk, desert, minuman, coffee / tea n bla bla bla...
Quotation result = RM XX,XXX.XX (for 550 pax)

Because the Ringgit Malaysia is still within our budget, so we agreed to book the caterer.
Then, for the Reception di rumah, I should said that I need to build the pelamin at the canopy.. nowadays, i saw ppl choose to make their pelamin outside rather than inside.. as u know, my house takla besar mana kan.. so, the result = PELAMIN should be outside - at the canopy.

Wokey, at Reception event dirumah, we only should cater for 300 guests. It is including neighbours, close friends and close relatives. So, memandangkan ia di malam hari, the possiblities that semua org akan dtg selepas menunaikan solat maghrib, adalah serentak. So, we should have 6 canopies (1 canopy dah sah2 utk pelamin). It is bcoz, my advice, if those out there nak buat majlis mlm hari (buffet), let say the crowd are around 1000 pax, u need to have at least 12 canopies ya.. plzzz... dun go fo 7 canopies.. it is not enough!! Dun make ur guest waiting to have their dinner! Heheh..Tapi kalau siang hari, it ok to have 6-7 canopies.. sbb masanya lebih panjang..

Ok, then my dream to have the arabian canopies (yg sgt hot ketika ini), + scallop + butterfly scallop di tiang canopy + underlayer and chandelier for all the canopies (not only for the pengantin canopy), the price that I need to pay = RM850 for each canopy X 6 = RM5100 (fuhhh..lagi mahal dr sewa dewan). Uwaaaaa... and the canopy hanya utk meraikan 300 tetamu.. Berbaloi ker?

Kalau kaya raya, baloi la kot..heheh.. anyway, i'm still doing my calculation..

**Pic fr CT Catering

Oh 2008, here I come! Tuesday, January 1, 2008

2008 is just around the corner.. While I'm writing in this blog, it's almost 7 hours left to 2008..
Mmm, well..in 2007, byk memories baik yg gembira, sedih, suka dan duka.. Things happened in 2007 yg menggembirakan hati ialah:

1- I've graduated!
2- Manage to build my business succesfully.. Revenue of the year, 5 angka! (good income for small business)
3- Get hired by 3 giant company / organization!
4- Last year for stay single!
When 2008 is coming, i'm planning to:
1- Get promotion! No matter how..ekekek..
2- Expand my business!
3- Ready to become a wife for my Soulmate!
4- Yearly income for my own business + penyata gaji tahunan at my organization = Should be 6 angka for 2008!
Mmm, yg lain still on planning.. but, all these are for sure.. Insyaallah..Amin.

Self preparation toward marriage Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Lately I was so busy with my work. Keja, keja n keja till that day I off duty for 2 days. Soulmate and I went to lepaks2 di Old Town White Coffee yg berhampiran dengan umah (as this is our lepak venue for all the time bila bosan2).
Asyik bercerita about our wedding, suddenly dia bersuara lebih kurang mcm nie bunyinya.

S : Asyik cite pasal kawin, awak dah bersedia ke?
Me : Bersedia apa?
S : Self preparation toward marriage.
Me : (Bulp!)
S : Hidup suami isteri tak sama dengan yg mcm sekarang.
Me : Ya, I know.
S : Nanti bila dah jd suami isteri, awak kena taat ckp suami, bla bla bla and bla....

After that, I just realized, Soulmate sungguh menyentuh hati. He mentioned about the duty as husband and wife. Waaa..sungguh jauh pemikiran Soulmate...Ya, I mean, b4 nie mmg la aku dah bersedia nak jadi isteri... but Soulmate think lebih dari jadi suami isteri...About our future and bla bla... dan membuatkan aku lebih yakin dengan pilihan sendiri... ekekeke....

Well, I realized that.. this things adalah perkara yg sgt penting that every future bride n groom mesti fikirkan. Bukan baju yg beribu, bukan pelamin yg indah yg menjamin hidup kita, ada lagi perkara lain yg penting yg selalu kita lupa! Terutama sebagai wanita, it's really hard to carry the title of 'ISTERI' if we're not ready.

For me, siapkan pemikiran, tetapkan hati, teguhkan iman, let us discuss the issue of Self Preparation Toward Marriage' with your soulmate!

Susah Hatilah Saya Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Aha, I was so susah hati when thinking about relationship. Another 6 months to go, I hope nothings happen during our preparation.
Well, I have 3 best friends dari sekolah rendah till now. They are Ms.Y, Ms.R and Ms.H. What I heard about them when we went to gedix2 that day, Ms.H telah putus hubungan yang telah terjalin selama 7 tahun! Yes, 7 tahun..when we still at form 5! Ok, that's the story. I feel so sad about her..
I just cannot imagine after 7 years relationship, hubungan boleh putus mcm tu saje..Yela, me and Soulmate juga berjumpa masa tingkatan 5. At that time, he has his gf.. but, suddenly tiba2 jatuh chenta pandang ke 16. Ahahaha... Ms.H and me, build the relationship masing2 pada tahun yg sama.. We're school mate for four of us!
Ok, sila tetapkan pendirian masing2... Make it like this. When something happen to our relationship, sila jgn marah2. Terapikan diri dengan mengingatkan diri sendiri dan kawal perasaan. Sbb when we upset, kita lupa yg sebenarnya kita pernah jatuh chenta dengan dia!

Wedding theme color Monday, November 5, 2007

Dulu2..masa tgk all my fren yg kawin dulu dr myself, I was thinking the pink color was sooo sweetttt... (I cannot hide myself dr jatuh chenta dgn color pink wokeh)!

But, ramai sgt org pilih color pink as their wedding theme... purple is so..~blah~, light green is nice but not into me.., blue is too soft..gold is outdated..eeyakkss...Red is nice but when the dress is in red, mahu pengsan warna2 meriah ala chinese new year!

Setelah aku pikir and pikir and pikir, so, I choose white and red roses for my wedding theme at dewan. I can imagine that my outfit will look so pure with white color and the pelamin and decoration dlm dewan will full with red roses! Yes, this is final!

Then, for the akad nikah, I choose colorful theme...baju with colorful beaded, colorful roses..weee..so nice lah!

And for the reception dekat rumah, hehehe..still cannot avoid with pink...so, I choose pink and Soulmate said combine the pink color with black! Yup, it's black! So, pink and black will be my wedding theme color for the reception dekat rumah. Yeeehaaaa... I like lol!

Searching for my designer Friday, November 2, 2007

Ok, here's the story.
I'm not the type to have something which comes in package. As you know nowadays, mcm2 package pengantin yg kita boleh dapat.. You know why? When it comes with package, sometimes, not all things yg ada dlm package tue, memenuhi citarasa... Mcm situation nak booked dewan hari tue...

So, yesterday me and Soulmate went to Man Kajang for our wedding outfit. Since Soulmate's sister, his cousin, my cousin always go for him. So, aku ikut jer.. tapi mmg aku realize la his dress mmg cantik..

Arrived at his boutique, a lil small discussion, here and there... so, we manage to have him for design our outfit utk akad nikah and reception di dewan. ~Weeeee!~

The price of sepasang baju akad nikah L/P dan sepasang baju reception with french lace and chiffon - cost us around RM five thousand plus plus. Gosh!

Finding a photographer Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Semalam was so happy coz belum apa2 lagi, I've found a perfect photographer which suit all my needs.. Coz, I'm a lil bit fussy about my wedding album to be!

I've tried to surf at FP since there a lot of photographers over there yg boleh dijadikan pilihan.. During my engagement, I hired Digital Syndicate. They are great! But, I just want to change the touch for my wedding album.. saje tukar angin pula..so, searching, searching thru 1 fp to another fp, and 1 magz to another magz, finally I've found one!

Yesterday, we went to their gallery. So, would like to announce, our official photographer for the wedding is belong to CANDID SYNDROME.

They are talented, nice art, nice package too! Dan yang paling penting, it suits Soulmate's and myself interest and of course our pocket too!

Neway, wedding photographs is about capturing bride & groom happiness and the beautiful wedding. Weird angle, excessive photoshop-ing and tacky wordings is so ~blah~ :p

Ohhh.. I just so hated the shots where it featured the bride+groom as a magazine cover... Hahaha... It's so 90's la! Don't u ever!

Wish List - Part 1

I dream to have this for the wedding shoe.. It's from Stuart Weitzman.
Which will cost me around RM1000++!!!

Erghhh..

Planning started!! Saturday, October 27, 2007

9 months to go! Now, the time to hunter for the :

1. Caterer
2. Wedding Hall
3. Wedding Outfit
4. Music
5. MC for the event
6. Photographer
7. Videographer
8. Cake!

Ok, Soulmate's and I, dah discuss dah we want to combine our wedding reception which means the wedding will be held sekali sahaja.. No need Majlis Bertandang etc, since me and him are neighbours.. so, nnt nak panggil jiran yg sama juga except his mother friends and my dad friends.

Whee...i love the ideas.. saving and menguntungkan! So, we're try harder to find suitable hall for the reception memandangkan hanya nak buat sekali shj.. We went to :

1. Dewan Perdana Felda - This place is really exclusive. They offered a package wedding from RM55++ per person if I'm not mistaken. It sounds 'still in the budget' for us but when I saw the pelamin and decoration which comes with the package, eeyukkss.. i don't like it! Soulmate's said, it's ok..we will hire someone for the pelamin.. But for me, it waisting.. Why should I pay for other things yg dah ada dlm package then I need to pay for lagi utk pelamin yg lain.. Unless aku nie kaya raya.. So, Soulmate's kecewa...Sorry syg.. It waste!
2. Dewan Tun Rahah - The same things happen ! So.. REJECTED!
3. Dewan Cattleya - I love this place so much but fiance said "Jauh sgt dr rumah kita". So, it's time for me plak rasa kecewa...
4. After all, we choose dewan yg sgt sederhana which both of us, sekali pandang terus sama2 agree... So, here's the place. Tunggu till my wedding ya!

Right time to settle down Thursday, October 25, 2007

Once bila I planned the engagement, Soulmate x berapa agree since we're both still young and just finished the study.. But, I still remember the situation at the hospital when my mom has been warded at end of 2005, he said to my mom that he will marry me one day!

I still remember the situation.. My mom smile but she said "Nanti ayah tak bagi..still young.."
Hehehe..

But after all, one year after pemergian Mama, we've decided to engage..at least, after 6 years relationship on that time, dapatlah mengurangkan kata2 neighbours yg asyik tanya bila nak kawin?

Then, today..after I've been Soulmate's fiance, I've already decided the date for my wedding..

Yes, now..it is the right time to settle down!