Today, she hit 3 weeks old! Monday, July 27, 2009

Yup, my little Qaira Jasmine is 3 weeks old today!

And 3 weeks jugakla masih dalam pantang lagi... and i just lost 8 kg..Arghhhh...

I wish I could lost 20kg.. Any tips mommies out there? Huhuhu...

Dear My Little Qaira Jasmine,

U always make my day... Mama love u so much!

And to My Beloved Husband,

We're still in sleepless land just because of Qaira Jasmine!

Hahahaha... Sabar ok!

My Lil Qaira Jasmine Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Qaira dah almost 2 1/2 weeks dah.. hihihi.. sekejap jer masa berlalu...

Siang dia tido mcm baby... (of course la mmg dia baby lagi...).. Mata mcm kena gam klu tido siang...

Malam, mata dia mula terbuka luas dan takmo tido... so, skrg nie I tgh practice dia berjaga siang and tido malam.. so far ok sket...

Malam dia hanya bangun bila tak comfortable dgn diaper dia n nak susu... Huhuhu

Tgk, malam jer mcm nie la dia.. Oh ya! Qaira Jasmine tak boleh hisap2 jari ok... Not good 4 u!

Nanti bila Mama dah keja balik, mesti rindu Qaira.. kadang2 I wish boleh masukkan Qaira balik dlm perut... so that bila nak pegi mana2, senang sket.. hahaha... Pastu bila balik umah, kuarkan balik..hihihi...

Bosannya dok umah!!! Monday, July 20, 2009

Uwaaaa... bosannya duduk rumah tak tgk dunia luar.. hahaha..

Sume sbb kena tggu confinement period nie habis...

Tapikan semalam, I sempat gi The Curve to enjoy Mothercare's sale.. tapi jalan slow2 jer takut bentan...hahahha...

Gi Mothercare jer..pastu terus balik.. boleh? During my 3rd week of confinement... Hihihi..

Calling All Mommies! Help me... Wednesday, July 15, 2009

It's already 10days since Qaira was born.. and 10days jugaklah I NEVER BREASTFEED HER...

Mcm nie citernya...

Mula2 Qaira lahir hari tue, my milk still takde lagi.. but, I dah stimulate dia dengan breastfeed jer dia even takde susu lagi.. but the whole day dekat hospital tue, susu mmg takde, so nak tak nak terpaksalah I bagi Formula milk to overcome her hunger.. karang tak minum apa2 sian plak dia.. mcm tue jugak on 2nd day..

Masuk 3rd day, I dah boleh produce susu.. Yeay! But, bila my boobs dah bengkak, tiba2 nipple terus tenggelam.. actually my nipples pun agak pendek and I try banyak cara antaranya guna shrink untuk tarik nipples keluar.. (soorry ya.. I need to explain this untuk dapatkan info dr u all)

So, bila nipples dah ok, skrg nie, dah berapa banyak hari I cuba untuk breastfeed dia, tapi dia tak pandai lagi.. bila dia tak boleh breastfeed, dia terus nak mengamuk.. dah berhari2 I cuba ajar Qaira untuk breastfeed till skrg I rasa sedih + kecewa + rasa nak nangis sbb dia tak nak breastfeed.. mungkin sbb dia dah selesa dengan teats bottle kan...

Nasib baiklah I boleh produce banyak susu bila pam... so, skrg apa yg I buat, I pam susu and bagi dia thru bottle sbb dia mmg tak nak breastfeed.. macam mana ya? I teringin sgt nak breastfeed kan dia... I cuba bersabar banyak jugak dengan trained dia how to breastfeed.. cuma kadang2 I give up bila dia dah mengamuk menangis nak susu...

Mmm, anyone can advice me how to solve this? I rasa kecewa... perasaan I nie bertubi2 nak cuba jugak breastfeed dia... maybe because of my nipple dia jadi tak comfortable nak breastfeed.. so, mcm mana ya? Rasa nak nangissssss........ Uwaaaaa....

My Precious Momment Saturday, July 11, 2009

I think this is the best time nak citer my experience lahirkan Qaira.. As u know, 4th July aritu was our wedding anniversary.. To my husband, tak sangka dah setahun kita kawin.. we went to celebrate our anniversary that day kat Damansara.. one perfect fine dining hanya me and him.. hihihi.. oh, before that, sempat singgah Mid Valley to enjoy Mothercare's sale.. Masa jalan2 tue, husband pegang perut I, then dia ckp, kerasnyaaa... tak pernah perut awak keras mcm nie.. and I said, entah tak tahu...so, kitorang pun just enjoy the day...

Balik umah dah malam..so I decided to go to bed early sbb rasa penat sgt... esok nak pegi wedding my fren.. dlm 3 pagi cmtue, Anita (the mrs-bride) sms me... dia ckp dia dah delivered her baby and I was so happy.. thinking of after kenduri nak pegi melawat Knit la...

Dalam pukul 6 lebih mcm tue, I bangun.. pegi toilet dulu nak buang air... tapi bila dah habis, I tgk ada air yg tak henti mengalir.. I thought it was my urine.. tapi bila pegang takde bau.. so, I mcm cemas sket... and fikir, "Dah water broke ker..ish tak lah kot..."

So, I masuk bilik balik.. and kejutkan husband.. I cakap, mcm ada air yg mengalir kat bawah nie.. tapi tak banyak... then bila tgk balik, takde plak..so dia kata, takpela.. tidur balik.. jangan pikir bukan2... at the same time, I sempat ckp, Anita dah bersalin.. kul 3 pagi tadi dia sms... then dia ckp, "Ok, nanti kita gi melawat dia hari nie..awak janganglah terbawa2 dengan Anita dah bersalin awak rasa nak bersalin plak.." Eh, eh, suka hati husband ckp cmtue.. pastu I gelak jer..

So, I ingat nak sambung tido.. bila nak tido jer balik, I rasa air tue keluar lagi.. then I gi toilet and berdiri, tgk2 air tue still mengalir lagi.. then I inform my husband again.. kali nie, dia pegi kejut my MIL, and bila my MIL tgk, dah sahlah she said air ketuban dah pecah...

Ohhh.. on that time, I suspend dah ok.. rasa nak nangis pun ada.. I didn't expect this thing will come so early mcm nie.. sbb I baru masuk 37 weeks.. so, I just siap2 and zooooommmm, terus pegi hospital..

Sampai jer hospital terus pegi dewan bersalin... masa tue dlm pukul 7am..haaa..masa nie nervous tak ingat ok.. pastu dia suruh baring la.. and nak tgk dah dilate bape cm... oh time nie.. azabnya rasa... sakit n ngilu sume rasa... bila pikir balik tak sanggup lagi nak hadapi nie... bila Doc check, baru dilate 1 cm... so, kena tahan wad....

Dah kena tahan wad, mmm...kena tunggu la.. masa tunggu nie, bape kali ntah Dr check the dilation... aduh rasa nak nangis.. tapi I rasa tak sakit lagi... so, the dilation pun still 1 cm jugak.. till dah kul 10 mlm mcm tue, mula dah rasa mcm period pain tue.. then I inform the nurse.. Dr pun datang and check lagi... and the dilation is 2cm jer... then dlm kul 12 am, after almost 18 hours air dah pecah, I dibawa lagi ke dewan bersalin... dan masuk ke bilik bersalin yg menyeramkan tue.. I pun di pasang dgn CTG utk dgr heart beep baby.. masa nie tetiba I demam... jenuhla nurse2 sume letak air sejuk kat 1 badan tgh2 malam tue kan... dengan Dr sekejap2 asyik check dilation tapi bru buka 3cm jer...

So, dlm bilik bersalin tue, ada 4 Dr. tak salah including Dr.Marina.. kecoh2 tgh decide mcm mana.. either to have normal delivery or C-Sec jer.. time ni I berdebar sgt2.. takuttt... and at last, all the Dr. decide buat C-Sec jer memandangkan CTG punya result showed that baby's heart beep semakin lemah and worried about virus infection due to my demam la kan.. masa tue Dr. Marina ckp, kita terpaksa buat C-Sec sbb heart beep baby lemah.. I dah mula fikir bukan2.. then Dr.Marina said, operation nie maybe akan menyebabkan nyawa baby or ibu dlm bahaya.. but dia akan buat yg terbaik.. so, I said ok and they immediately inform my husband...

Once I dah sign approval utk operation tue, so dorang tak tungu lama terus bawa I ke Dewan Bedah.. masa ni, Allah jer yg tahu my feelings masa tue.. perjalanan nak pegi Dewan Bedah tue dengan my husband yg sedang bawa baju baby, betul2 menyentuh hati and perasaan... till dah masuk Dewan Bedah tue, bila pintu tertutup, last I tgk muka my husband and masa tue I hope sume akan ok and I will meet by baby soon... ;(

Masuk jer dewan bedah, Dr. paralyzed kan half body jer.. meaning that I still terjaga lagi la.. eee, masuk bilik bedah tue jer dah seram lagi bila tgk tools bedah2 tue.. Dr. said, I boleh rasa semua except pisau sume akan jadi tumpul.. tapi betullah, I boleh rasa semua, cuma bila dorang bedah nak kuarkan baby tue, hanya rasa ngilu n sakit sket jer... bila dah bedah tue, once dorang nak keluarkan baby, another Dr. tekan perut I (just bawah breast kita nie) utk keluarkan baby.. masa nie sakitnya yg teramat.. I ingat bila C-Sec takdela rasa sakitkan.. tapi, sakit jugak.. nangis beria la jugak.. 4 kali jugak la dia tekan perut utk keluarkan baby, and at last, I dengar suara baby nangis... masa nie, I menangis terharu ok.. tak dpt nak describe my feelings... I tak pernah rasa satu perasaan yg tak pernah I rasa sebelum ni.. tgh2 sakit tue, I panggil nurse, tanya, baby I ok ker.. dia kata ok.. nanti dia tunjuk sbb tgh bersihkan... so, mengalir la air mata ibu for the first time..

Tak lama pastu, nurse dtg and tunjuk my baby.. pastu dia ckp girl.. I cium my baby 2 kali.. I was so happy...pastu dia ckp, tadi baby sesak nafas sket..so, dorang bawak kat dewan bersalin balik untuk pantau sekejap..then, dlm 3.15, dah selesai semua, I di bawak ke ICU, untuk pantau selama 1 jam my condition... I keluar dr bilik bedah tue dlm 4.15am, and first thing I tgk my husband dah tercegat kat depan pintu...tgk muka dia mcm suspend jer kan.. bila i kuar baru dia nampak ok sket.. then dia kata, Ok ker? I pun anggukkan jer..

Terus I dibawak masuk wad balik la.. masa nie tak boleh bergerak lagi.. ubat bius masih ada lagi.. so, lepas tue I tido jer smpai la pagi... bila pagi tetiba I terbangun and terus tanya nurse, mana baby saya? Dia kata still dalam pantauan lagi... so, I ckp takpela.. nanti kalau dia dah balik sini, terus bawak kat I.. dia kata ok ..dun worry...

Dlm kul11 am, barulah dapat jumpa my baby pas dia dh kuar dr bilik bersalin tue.. and time tu, sume dah ok... my husband tak habis2 ckp, "Thanks Yang..lahirkan anak abang.." Ishh, terharu betullah...

Mmm, sekarang I dh jadi Mama.. sikit sebanyak banyak mengubah cara hidup I compared to last week.. Hihihi

Now, I feel complete... :)

Hi, We're Back! Thursday, July 9, 2009

Dear all,

Thanks for all ur wishes.. I have no time to update more about my experience...but will try to find another time bila my lil daughter nie tgh tido..hihihi

Such a wonderful moment to have her with us!

I've been discharged from the hospital yesterday.. and looking at my condition because of cesarean, sangat susah nak buat keja dlm 1 masa...

And now, I would like to introduce my daughter, QAIRA JASMINE BINTI MUHAMMAD SHAHRIL

Hello..I'm Qaira Jasmine

And this is my new crib!

Its a Baby Girl Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Hello N salam ,

I Aril , amie's Husband... sorry klu ayat tak semenarik as my wife buat :)

Just wanna inform everyone, Amie selamat melahirkan a healthy baby girl as we expected... 2.8kg @ Selayang Smart Hospital 6 July 2009 @ 2.38am. Its so great to see her for the first time which is antara hidup dan mati sebb amie terpaksa di operate last minute...... susah nak describe perasaan i waktu doc minta kebenaran untuk operate Amie coz its already 18 hours lepas pecah air, so baby punya heart beep dah weak....

So... i gave Dr. Mariana do what ever she can do as long my wife and baby selamat.
Baby keluar from operation room @ 2.50am dan mama dia @4.10am.....

We still waiting second blood test for baby untuk pastikan baby bebas kuman di mana 1st test is free from infection.

Here i nak ucapkan banyak2 terima kasih pada all blogger friends yg banyak berdoa for my wife, may god bless all of you. Amin

Any news will be update...

Bra - During and After pregnancy Thursday, July 2, 2009

Yuuhhuuu..

Received an e-mail again how to choose a good bras during and after pregnacy from one of my readers.. (readers katanya...hihihi)

Ok, ok, takpe... mari kita share..but this one bukan rated 18sx ok.. just an info utk kegunaan kita bsama..just based on my experience, masa mula2 dulu I pun tak tahu ada maternity bras and juga nursing bras.. mula2 I belasah jer la bras biasa yg selalu I pakai.. till sampai 1 tahap, I recognized that my bras wouldn't fit my breast anymore.. rasa ketat and tak selesa coz b4 this I used to wear underwired bras kan..so, bila pakai rasa mcm pedih and sakit sgt pada bahagian bawah breast tu..

So, I explore la and mmg dr dulu, for me, it's important to wear a correctly fitted bra.. sbb memandangkan that my size bukan ala2 cup A kan.. so, pentinglah bcoz this help us to retain and regain our figure kan.. karang nanti tak pasal2 org cakap;

"Ish, tgk dia tue, salah pakai size bra or cup and so on.."

Kan ker malu kan..so, moms to-be and moms out there, mesti alert that FASHION BRA do not provide adequate support in pregnancy. Underwired bras should not be worn when you are pregnant or nursing your baby! Ok?




Sebab sesetengah org, I tak paham.. patut dia pakai saiz besar, tapi still maintain saiz kecik and cup yang tak sepatutnya sbb tak boleh terima kenyataan yg saiz bra telah naik and cup bra juga perlu yg semakin besar..agaknya dorang malu kot.. but this one tak patut ok... Sbb kita mesti sayang badan kita and jaga supaya "aset" nie akan kekal cantik sampai bila2... cewahhh.. hihihi

Ok, first of all, mula2 kita kena get the right fit bra. During pregnancy, usually org akan increase by more than two bra sizes and may need to be measured up to 4 times...

Then, korang gi la kedai yg jual bra tue, mintak trained advisers measure and find the right bra at each stage..


How to measure your bra size

Measure directly under your bust. For inches, add 4 inches onto an even number and 5 inches onto an odd number to give ur bra size. For cm, round up or down to the nearest bra size.

How to measure your cup size

Measure around the fullest part of your bust. For cm, the difference between A and B dertermines your cup size.. for inches, the difference between the full bust measurement and the bra size indicates the cup size..

Yang penting, even apa pun your cup size, jangan malu ok.. D ker, DD ker or even E, F, G, wear a coorect and fit size.. sbb nie akan menentukan keanjalan "aset" anda di masa hadapan.. hihihi

p/s - I bila ukur balik and find out I kena beli 2 saiz extra dr apa yg I pakai b4 pregnant, rasa mcm nak pengsan ok.. tapi takpe... tak payah malu2.. pakai jer janji comfortable...kan?

So, hope this can help u.. Just an info ok.. sharing is caring kan?

Pics : Istock photo

Check Up yang mungkinkah kali terkahir sudah? Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Yer yer.. today check up.. and guess what? Betul ckp Anita, baby sudah engaged! Hihihi.. soookaa

But my husband reaction seems like 50-50... suka, takut, suka, takut...

Ala Yang..apa nak takut, kalau dah sakit nanti, beranak jer la..

Skrg, I rasa, perut asyik mengeras..kejap2 mengeras...dan keras lagi...

Malam, dia keras...keras n keras.. mmg tak boleh tido... Pastu sakit yang mcm period pain tue ada rasa sesekali.. tapi tak teruk sgt... so, I am ok..

Kiranya tanda2 masih belum adalah.. hanya biasa2 jer.. tapi I tahu, husband excited sgt.. hari2 tanya, bila baby nak kuar...eh eh...

Next week, rasa mcm tak nak pegi dah check up..boleh tak? Boleh kot kan..Malasla...

Minggu nie nak sambut anniversary... Mahu berdua2an bsama suami... Merasai detik2 muda2 dulu masa cinta2..ceh.. I love U, U love me.. boleh? Berdua2 sebelum bertiga..hihhi..

Citer 'gosip' I DELETE ok!

Pasal citer menantu n anak derhaka tue kan, I delete ok.. I rasa nanti org yg berkenaan terasa.. Apa yg I blog kan tue, hope jadi pengajaran pada kita ok..

Sebab kalau kita boleh buat org mcm tue, tak mustahil 1 hari nanti anak kita akan balas balik pada kita..

Just fikir2 kan ya!

Yummylicious! Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Fren : Amie, ko takde cravings nak makan apa2 ker masa pregnant nie?

Me : Takde.. semua pun makan...

Fren : Takkan tak teringin apa pun...

Me : Takde la...aku makan semua.. asal yang sedap... yang pasti, apa2 air yg atas dia ada whipped cream, mmm, yummylicious.. tue jer yg nak selalu...

Tapikan, time2 dah nak deliver nie la tetiba dtg cravings yg tak tentu pasal ok.. bila ingat2 balik, rasa mcm resah tak boleh nak lupa... hari2 dlm kepala otak.. tapi tak boleh nak ckp apa sbb susah betul nak dpt... Ishhhhh....

Me : Yang, teringin nak makan brownies...

Husband : Ok, jap gi kita gi secret recipe..

Me : Tak nak... secret recipe tak sedap... nak brownies lain...

Husband : Kat mana?

Me : Nak brownies ..............................

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Nak brownies Kartika Sari jugak!!!! Tak kira!!!! Hahaha... mana nak dpt kat sini? Uwaaa... tak boleh lupa rasa dia.. Dan pantang tak beli klu gi Bandung... Ishhh.,..

Dan jugak kan... sangat2 cravings ini la...........

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Cempedak goreng...... sedapnyaaaaaaaa!

Pics : google Image

Salam Maaf Dari Saya... Monday, June 29, 2009

Hi peeps,

Bila dah dengar my blogger mate, Anita sudah rasa sakit nak bersalin, I jugak tetiba rasa berdebar2... sbb beza between me and her hanya 10 hari sahaja... Yesterday, I dah masuk 37 weeks.. my energy sudah sgt kurang.. jalan sket, dah penat.. sakit belakang adalah sentiasa..., berdiri lama2 adalah sesuatu yang tidak tertanggung lagi apatah lagi bila nak tido, nak alihkan badan pun, rasa sakit.. itu belum my baby keraskan badan dia...

My dear Baby,

Kalau baby bt mcm tue, Mama rasa sakit ok.. and at one time 2 hari lepas, bila nak tido, Mama mengiring ke kiri.. and I know u (my baby) tak suka kalau Mama mengiring ke kiri kan.. u will kicking and keep moving betul2 dekat area pinggang belah kiri... Sometimes, I think I can feel your jari jemari kaki tue.. and bila tetiba baby kick kuat hari tue, make me woke up immediately sbb Mama rasa geli and tak pernah baby tendang sekuat itu... oooo, noty yer.. and I just smiled even tgh2 malam tue.. Your Abah, dah tak sedar apa dah.. Dia tido jer.. and esoknya bila Mama cerita what u did to me, he smiled... Hihihi..

Baby, to have u inside my womb, was really make my life so meaningful. Mama tak pernah pun terfikir satu hari nanti, impian nak jadi seorang ibu betul2 akan termakbul and Mama bersyukur sgt2.. When I sit alone, I always think how u will look like.. macam muka Abah ker or Mama.. Hihihi.. and whatever it is, Mama tak kisah.. Asalkan bila baby keluar nanti, baby sihat and sempurna.. and dr dalam perut lagi Mama doakan semoga baby keluar dan menjadi seorang anak yang soleh and berguna pada bangsa and agama... Dan saat2 utk bertemu dengan baby semakin hampir sekarang... I feel excited and at the same time Mama rasa takut jugak... to deliver u in this world adalah antara hidup dan mati Mama.. Semoga dalam bilik bersalin nanti, Mama and baby akan tough mengharungi detik2 cemas itu nanti... yang akan jadi saksi adalah Abah nanti... and bila baby dah pop out, kita bertiga akan jadi sebuah keluarga... ~Weee~ Tak sabar nak tunggu momment tue!

Dear my beloved husband,

Saat yang kita nantikan semakin terasa debarannya.. Hahaha... samalah.. kita dua2 pun topik yang hari2 nak bincang adalah pasal baby... Dan bila malam, bila tiba2 org terjaga, immediately awak jugak akan terjaga and tanya, "Dah sampai masa ker?" Hahaha...kelakar pun ada... cemas tak tentu pasal.. but it's normal i think.. this is our 1st time, so mmg akan rasa cemas2 and takut sudah semestinya lah kan...

Yang, thanks yer for everythings... dr awal my pregnancy till today, I think u help and support me a lot! Dr 1st trimester yang pening2 nak muntah tue..yang tak boleh bau badan awak tue.. till 2nd trimester yg macam2 kehendak itu ini yang nak dipenuhi, sampailah skrg dah 3rd trimester, yg malam2 tak boleh tido and sakit2 belakang sekarang, semuanya berlalu dengan baik sekali dengan adanya awak disisi... Dan sekarang, semua persiapan dah siap.. tinggal nak tunggu baby nie keluar jer.. and pasni, jgn haraplah awak boleh tido malam dengan nyenyaknya... hahaha... tapi takpe, I think u've already matured enough and dah bersedia untuk hadapi semua nie kan?

So, kita counting the days jer la sekarang.. apa pun, org mintak maaf zahir batin dan halalkan segala2nya.. Dosa org skrg dibawah tapak kaki suami kan, kan? So, halalkan makan minum.. Kalau ada selama nie terkasar bahasa, dan apa sahaja yang 'TER' sehingga awak terkecil hati, ampun ya... Dan doakan org, semoga semuanya selamat dan dipermudahkan segalanya...Ok?

And to Ayah and all my family,

Doakan semoga semuanya selamat dan bila baby dah keluar, Ayah akan dapat 1st cucu.. hahaha.., and to my sis n bro., korang dah jadi aunty and uncle la plak.. Meaning that, usia kita semakin bergerak laju ke depan.. bukan ke belakang ok.. dan korang sume semakin tua... hihihi..

And to my fellow bloggers and frens,

Sila doakan saya juga ya.. semoga semuanya selamat... Saya semakin tak sabar sekarang! And i do love to share my happiness with all of u! And.. dun wory, dah kuar jer baby nanti, I will reveal the baby soon.. hahaha.. oh! And maaf zahir batin jugak saya pinta sbb kadang2 penulisan di blog saya nie, mungkin telah ramai menyakitkan hati sesapa yg terasa sbb saya nie mmg tak pandai nak berselindung dr segi tutur dan kata... (Dah mcm hari raya dah rasa!)

Anita, June, Rini and mom to-be,
Kalau u all bersalin dulu, sila2 la e-mail or sms.. I nak tahu jugak experience u all.. sakit sgt ker, sakit sket ker.. huhuhu... takot woooo... ! Hahaha

Till now,
Bye!

Hanie's Wedding Friday, June 26, 2009

Hi peeps,

Last Sunday, husband and I attended to Hanie's wedding dekat Shah Alam.. Was my first time met Hanie since dah setahun kot kenal Hanie thru her blog.. Time tue I was busy preparing my own wedding and talk a lot about my wedding and Hanie adalah commentator yg setia... Hhaha!

Sampai sana, I met Anita (the mrs-bride) and Diah seperti yang dijanjikan... Was my 1st time jugak jumpa dorang... and Anita skrg dah jadi my bloggers mate yg hari2 mesti kitorang share and talk a lot about our pregnancy... huhuhu... kata geng.. kan Knit? Hahaha... And also Diah... yg I kenal during I sibuk2 citer pasal my wedding and at that time dia baru jer bertunang dengan kekasih hati.. Auuuww... Huhuhu... And Diah also si bakal pengantin yg akan join the club on August nie.. Hihihi... Jom Diah.. pas kawin, boleh dapat perut mcm kitorang... Hanie pun sama.. Hahaha....

Diah, Anita and the gemukkkss mom to-be, saye la sape lagi...

Aha... and 3 jejaka idaman Malaya nie, I called them "Edisi Jejaka Perut Ke Depan".. hahaha...
From left; Anita's husband, my beloved husband and Diah's fiance
(Jangan marah yer jejaka2... kemantapan anda, menunjukkan isteri2 dan tunang yg pandai menjaga makan minum... Huhuhuhu)
Pics : Rembat from Anita's blog..huhu

Opppss..moms to-be and bride to-be..

With Hanie and husband... Hanie, nampak lain sangat muka hanie..U look stunning dear!

And Hanie's pelamin.. cantikkan? At first, I thought fresh flowers, bila dtg dekat rupa2nya artificial.. but, it turns awesome Hanie...

And last... mari kita ukur perut sape lagi besar.. Diah should out of the list... Hahaha.. Anita is expecting a baby boy and me, a girl! So ladies, harap pasnie boleh jumpa lagi... Pasni Knit, kita gendong anak2 pulak.. Hahaha... and ketawakan Diah n Hanie, sbb perut dorang plak besar..Huhuhu..

Pics : From Anita's blog

p/s - MJ passed away this morning...mmm..

No mood! Thursday, June 25, 2009

I have no mood lately.. many story mory nak cerita... but, mmm ~no mood!~ Maybe skrg nie perut nie dah sakit sgt.. Oh! Tak larat malas semua ada.. Since my early pregnancy, baru skrg kaki I dah start bengkak...

Well, bila duduk2 mcm nie, kenang masa silam and future; I conclude my mood for today:

Sometimes, it's GOOD to be BAD!

Kan kan?

Pics : Istock Photo

Hadiah Apa ya during our 1st Year Anniversary nanti... Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Aha, it's just next month sahaja and it would be my 1st year Anniversary...! Yuuuhuuuu.. Cepatnya masa berlalu.. Kalau tahun lepas nie, tgh sibuk sgt2 la nie settle sume persiapan kawin.. bestnya.. teringat waktu2 pening dulu.. huhuhu...

Nak lari gi fitting baju la, gift la, apa la... mcm2 la.. yg lagi best, lagi bape hari nak kawin nie, boleh plak tukar design pelamin... huhuhu... nasib menjadi.. sume gara2 aura DeBunga Gallery.. huhuhu.. Thanks to Kak Ida..

And, yg lagi pening skrg nie, I have no idea apa nak bagi pada husband during the anniversary... Kalau tanya dia, ada ke dia mintak PSP baru.. ceh.. malas nak layan.. dah nak jadi bapak org pun still nak main game lagi kan.. well, nanti I consider balik... Tapi husband ckp, tak payah susah2.. sbb skrg nie, both of us tgh concentrate untuk baby yang nak keluar nie.. so, he's fine.. He said, I akan bagi dia hadiah yang sgt2 bernilai dlm hidup dia tak lama lagi.. which I know..he's refering to the baby la..

But, I think, yer la.. betul apa dia ckp.. the most precious gift yg I boleh bagi pada dia, is our lil baby... kalau baby nie lahir during our anniversary, she would be our anniversary baby... huhuhu... But, untuk baby keluar on 4th July adalah impossible and tolonglah jangan... sbb kalau 4th July hanya, 11 hari dr sekarang!

Mandi Wiladah Monday, June 22, 2009

Ok, hari nie citer pasal bab agama iaitu Mandi Wiladah... Actually I pun lupa pasal nie till hari tu i dpt e-mail yg mengatakan, nowadays, org ramai selalu lupa pasal mandi wiladah.. Org akan ingat pasal Mandi Nifas jer.. tapi mandi Wiladah, ramai yang tak tahu... but, I'm not so sure sebetul mana e-mail tue.. skrg i dah rasa was-was pula ok.. and please share if u all ada info pasal nie..

Acc to here, wiladah bermaksud kelahiran anak termasuklah keguguran. so, meaning that, selepas lahirnya anak atau keguguran, maka seseorang tue kenalah mandi Wiladah nie.. mostly ramai org hanya tahu mandi nifas iaitu mandi selepas keringnya darah nifas... Kan? But, yg i pening nie, if mandi Wiladah ialah wajib selepas kita melahirkan anak, so, kita mandi2 dah.. but, kita still ada darah nifas.. so, condition kita on that time, adakah kita berada dlm keadaan bersuci? bcoz at the same time, kita still keluar darah nifas kan? faham tak u all?

Sbb kalau mengikut pemahaman I yg tak seberapa nih, buat apa nak mandi wajib kalau after that kita masih dlm keadaan tidak bersuci? (maknanya kita dah mandi wiladah.. tapi kita masih kuar nifas.. bersucikah namanya itu?)

I nak explain panjang2 pun i bukan expert ok.. but this one hukum hakam agama..so tak boleh buat main2... So, i really need to know.. Puas sudah I google nak tahu lebih lanjut pasal nie.. but, mcm2 pulak I baca smpai I lagi confused. So, i stop google... But after all, hanya dekat sini jer, yg I rasa penjelasan dia ok.

So, sekarang I nak tahu 2 soalan jer...iaitu:

1- perlukah kita mandi wiladah selepas melahirkan even at that time telah keluarnya darah nifas?

2- Atau kita tak perlu mandi wiladah sbb kita dah keluar darah nifas dan hanya perlu tunggu after darah nifas kering and barulah kita mandi wajib Nifas.

Sebab, setelah baca itu ini, I buat kesimpulan yang Mandi Wiladah hanya perlu jika seseorang wanita itu, melahirkan anak, kemudian masih tiada keluar darah nifas (in certain condition, cth mcm caesarean), so, kena cecepatlah mandi Wildah. But, if wanita lahir secara normal, sejurus selepas keluarnya baby, maka akan keluar darah nifas, so, tak perlu mandi wiladah.. Kita hanya perlu mandi nifas after darah nifas kering...

Mcm tue ker? U all jgn ikut kesimpulan i ok.. ini I conclude stelah baca and paham kat laman web soal jawab agama.. but I tak tahu betul atau tidak.. Wallahu'alam...

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*Sory.. i memang suka pikir n pikir till tak dpt bt apa2 conclusion pun..huhuhu

Dolu-dolu Saturday, June 20, 2009

Hahaha.. while facebook~ing, I saw this pic.. taken from my fren thru his profile pics..huhuhu... and surprisingly, ni gambar dolu-dolu ok.. guess which one is me?

Taken on 1988.. on that time, umur saya 6 tahun...huhuhuhu... masuk pertandingan menari antara tadika Daerah Gombak... ceh! menari pun berterabur...

Me and other 3 girls still keep intouch till now.. even sorang dah kawin dengan org Singapore, sorang lagi dah jadi cikgu and the other one still single but not available, engineer to-be!

Full of memories ok... antara pasangan-pasangan yang menari tue kan, only the blue boy tue yg still keep in touch till now.. yg lagi 3 tue, tak tahu mana.. and I also already forgot their name.. yang kat belakang tue, cikgu2 tadika ok...huhuhu... tak boleh imagine mcm mana la rupa dorang skrg....

And here, one of my fren yg menari sama tue.. Let's guess dia pakai baju color apa during that time? See his son... sgt demok ok...huhuhu..very cute!

And, which one is her? Cepat teka....

And also her... with her beloved husband and lovely son too! baju color apakah yg dia pakai? hahahah...

Sape dpt jawab which one is me and my fren nie, dia menang... hahahahah! Tapi tak dapat hadiah ok!

Safe baby sleeping positions Friday, June 19, 2009

Hi peeps,

I just want to share this info with all mom to-be or mom yg dah jadi and sesape jer la yg nak tahu.. huhuhu....

Lately nie I selalu terdedah dengan bayi (terdedah katanya...) huhuhu.. bukan bukan.. what I mean is, I selalu nak perhatikan baby org lain... cmna org feeding baby, breast feed baby, tidurkan baby, mandikan baby and mcm2 la.. and after all, I selalu discovered that most people, kalau nak tidurkan baby, always choose to put the baby, on their stomach or sides..

Yup, before this I never think apatah lagi nak discover baby sleeping positions till I tgk baby yg tidur secara meniarap... pastu pikir la, eh, asal nak bagi baby tidur meniarap yer? I rasa mcm I plak lemas or rimas... sbb kadang2 bila I tgk, baby kan selalu tidur lama, so kalau asyik letak meniarap jer, dia tak penat ke? and sometimes bila dia terjaga sekejap, baby akan bangun and alihkan kepala dia from left to right or vice versa la.. and kalau mcm nie, silap2, baby kalau tak pandai, akan letak muka dia kat tilam.. (Eh, camtu plak I pikir u all..) huhuhu....

So, I macam tak puas hati and terus google baby sleeping positions... and surprisingly, memang tak selamat pun those baby yg tidur meniarap nie..

Acc to here, SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) is the leading cause of death for infants between 1 month and 1 year of age. Dulu2 maybe pediatricians will recommend baby tidur secara meniarap sbb didapati baby akan tidur dengan lebih nyenyak... But, after research by research, they found out almost 50% baby death because of this syndrome.. So, almost half baby kat Amerika mati disebabkan cara tidur yg salah.. Scary isn't it?

So, please say no-no for the wrong way baby sleeping positions....

And The American Academy of Pediatrics, recommends that healthy babies be placed on their backs to sleep, not on their stomachs or sides. Refer above pic.

Mmm, not to forget, kita boleh meniarap kan baby during their waking time as this help baby to stimulate muscle development and to give them a new prspective of life!

So, mom out there? What do u think? Mcm mana u all tidurkan baby? Please share... :)

More info; visit here, here and here.

Husband oh! Husband Thursday, June 18, 2009

Pembantu rumah dah takde... huhuhu... dah balik semalam...

Terpaksalah buat sendiri semua balik...

Sambil jemur kain, husband nyanyi...

"Beginilah nasib diriku yang malang.... oh tuhan... tak boleh bersenang lenang....berehat sekejap, isteri dah meradang, kerja berat takut reput tulang...."

Hahahaha... remember this song? From P.Ramlee's story... the one title Ali Baba Bujang Lapok if i'm not mistaken...

Thanks to my lovely husband.. sbb dia banyak bersusah payah during my pregnancy.. really appreciate your help in doing all the house thingy! I really appreciate and will always love u! thanks again Yang....

Deco for Aqiqah Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Wah... aku nie suka berangan... baby pun tak keluar lagi kan, tapi dah berangan nak buat majlis Aqiqah and potong jambul la apa la... hahaha... siap dah pikir deco dah ok...

Konon berangan nak Aqiqah invitation tue mcm nie... boleh? kalau camtue, kena tanya Yann nanti for handmade invitation camnie.. Bole ker Yann? hihihi....


Then, gatal2 pikir centrepiece untuk majlis nie.. yg nie cantik... tapi tak sesuai sgt... pastu pikir2 nnt nak buat centrepeice patung bear la...


Surf2, skali dapat.. credit to tuan punya blog ok... But, what I had in mind, tak sama mcm nie... hihii... adalah... kalau nak tgk, tunggu majlisnya.. tue pun kalau jadi la.. InsyaAllah....


Then, something sweet for guest instead of bunga pahar ke kan... Nice decorated cookies... yummy! (Eh, tapi bunga pahar pun nak jugak untuk bagi pada org marhaban tue kan... kata buat sendiri... so, shouldn't be any probs kot....)


Then, fikir2 the deco for cradle.. kalau tak jumpa cradle nanti, guna baby cot pun boleh kan.. Mcm yg Rizalman buat nie... sweet sgt2.... simple.. Pics, credit to Rizalman....


And here, deco from Tania Zara.. serius mmg cantik....


And yang paling aku suka, another idea from Tania Zara... yg nie suka sgt2.... malam boleh mimpi ok deco yg mcm nie... hahaha.... Sweet... but I need to think my own idea la.. but this one should be my inspiration... Alahai.... comelnya....


Yang mcm nie plak, kena pakai stage mcm pelamin... deco for Engku Aleesya Engku Emran.. Credit untuk org yg buat deco nie ya.. Nice!


And last, again from Tania Zara... pun cantik jugak... might be my 2nd choice for deco...Eee..tak sabar!


After all, I need to think, cmna nak deco my baby cradle nanti... think, think and think...Isshhh...