Self preparation toward marriage Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Lately I was so busy with my work. Keja, keja n keja till that day I off duty for 2 days. Soulmate and I went to lepaks2 di Old Town White Coffee yg berhampiran dengan umah (as this is our lepak venue for all the time bila bosan2).
Asyik bercerita about our wedding, suddenly dia bersuara lebih kurang mcm nie bunyinya.

S : Asyik cite pasal kawin, awak dah bersedia ke?
Me : Bersedia apa?
S : Self preparation toward marriage.
Me : (Bulp!)
S : Hidup suami isteri tak sama dengan yg mcm sekarang.
Me : Ya, I know.
S : Nanti bila dah jd suami isteri, awak kena taat ckp suami, bla bla bla and bla....

After that, I just realized, Soulmate sungguh menyentuh hati. He mentioned about the duty as husband and wife. Waaa..sungguh jauh pemikiran Soulmate...Ya, I mean, b4 nie mmg la aku dah bersedia nak jadi isteri... but Soulmate think lebih dari jadi suami isteri...About our future and bla bla... dan membuatkan aku lebih yakin dengan pilihan sendiri... ekekeke....

Well, I realized that.. this things adalah perkara yg sgt penting that every future bride n groom mesti fikirkan. Bukan baju yg beribu, bukan pelamin yg indah yg menjamin hidup kita, ada lagi perkara lain yg penting yg selalu kita lupa! Terutama sebagai wanita, it's really hard to carry the title of 'ISTERI' if we're not ready.

For me, siapkan pemikiran, tetapkan hati, teguhkan iman, let us discuss the issue of Self Preparation Toward Marriage' with your soulmate!

Susah Hatilah Saya Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Aha, I was so susah hati when thinking about relationship. Another 6 months to go, I hope nothings happen during our preparation.
Well, I have 3 best friends dari sekolah rendah till now. They are Ms.Y, Ms.R and Ms.H. What I heard about them when we went to gedix2 that day, Ms.H telah putus hubungan yang telah terjalin selama 7 tahun! Yes, 7 tahun..when we still at form 5! Ok, that's the story. I feel so sad about her..
I just cannot imagine after 7 years relationship, hubungan boleh putus mcm tu saje..Yela, me and Soulmate juga berjumpa masa tingkatan 5. At that time, he has his gf.. but, suddenly tiba2 jatuh chenta pandang ke 16. Ahahaha... Ms.H and me, build the relationship masing2 pada tahun yg sama.. We're school mate for four of us!
Ok, sila tetapkan pendirian masing2... Make it like this. When something happen to our relationship, sila jgn marah2. Terapikan diri dengan mengingatkan diri sendiri dan kawal perasaan. Sbb when we upset, kita lupa yg sebenarnya kita pernah jatuh chenta dengan dia!