Showing posts with label My Precious Baby - Qaira. Show all posts
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Misi mencari kindy for Qaira
Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Morning!

Mission accomplished. Haa.. dah berapa bulan try survey kindy utk Qaira. She will hit 4 years old next year. Too early. Sebab my planned was nak anta Qaira masa umur dia 5 tahun. Tu plan masa mengandungkan Damia. Sebab bila ingat Damia ada Qaira akan ada kawan nak main-main. But Allah knows best. Kita rancang but He said cannot follow the rancangan. So i redha.

And thru my observation Qaira duduk rumah alone with me. A bit bored sebab pagi I memang akan busy with all my job thingy. And dia akan main alone. Kesian dia. And she repeatedly said, "Mama, min nak skool. Nak skool".  Jalan-jalan pergi sana sini would not be enough for Qaira. Kadang-kadang ikut I shopping dia akan penat. Kesian and tak dapat apa-apa. I nak dia bergaul and make frens. Too close with me. Qaira dah macam kembar I. Di mana ada Mama di situ ada Qaira Jasmine. Hiks ;)

So, husband and I decided nak anta Qaira to kindy next year. Mission bermula. Mula-mula I surveyed all kindy area my house. Seperti sedia maklum Kepong ni majority is chinese and all kindy are 'chinese based'. Opss.. ni bukan pasal race or what so ever. But I was looking on fardhu ain class. At least dia ada islamic edu. Tak berat pun takpe sebab dekat rumah I pun ada ajar dia on practical solat, doa and all. I know tak boleh nak depends on school je and I've already start teach since she was a baby. Dia mengaji also takde masalah coz we always practic this together at home.

Carilah I kindy area my territory ni and nothing yang menarik perhatian. Ada tu I suka environment dia siap ada swimming sebulan sekali and the fees pun ok. Just RM120 per month but when I saw the teacher with sleeveless and saw something on her armpit mcm tu I was thinking it is not proper for teacher to dress up like that. Dah tu dengan tak sengaja on that time I nampak the teacher tarik telinga one of the boy at 6 years old class and suddenly teacher tu pun terpandang I and buat-buat mcm; alamak..she was looking at me..haha ..from there terus macam tak jadi. Opps, I bukan anti-punishment. But when it comes to educate your children, tarik telinga tak mo la. Maybe u can practice the other way yang lebih proper. 

Then jalan lagi and stop on 2nd kindy. Yg ni okla. Even chinese kindy but they have Fardhu Ain class on Friday. Once a week but better ada dari takde. Everything macam ok but when I saw in 1 class they have around 30 kids, terus tak jadi. How come Qaira nak belajar and main with 30 kids in 1 class? No space.. too bising.. and I tengok pun pening. The fees also not bad. Only RM180 per month. But after all, tak jadi lah coz tempat tak spacious and too pack!

Jalan lagi and we stop at 1 branded Islamic kindy, English as a medium language area Gombak. Terpaksa pegi jauh sket in order nak dapatkan kindy yg sesuai. It's a shoplot kindy. I press the bell at wait around 15mins utk dorang bukak pintu in order to let me in. During that time ada parents jugak yang tunggu utk pick up her kid. Same things happen. Dia pun press the bell and wait there around 15mins. I told my husband asal la lama sangat nak bagi masuk ni. Apa yg susah sangat nak bukak pintu. I believed they have CCTV dlm tu and kenal parents yg nak pick up anak dia... and husband and I doesnt look like perompak or what so ever. Takkan perompak dtg bawak kids? But lamanya hai nak kena tunggu. Lepas pintu bukak, we all naik atas. And tak jemput pun duduk to discuss regarding the registration. Kena berdiri dengar penerangan dia around 15mins jugak kot. 15 mins tunggu bawah and another 15mins kena berdiri dengar penerangan, Qaira dah penat and I pun takde mood nak dengar sgt. I asked her to have a look area kindy tu.. tempat belajar, toilet etc. But dia mcm berat hati nak tunjuk and I said kalau u tak tunjuk macam mana I nak build up my confidence nak anta anak I dekat sini? And then, dia pun cakap okla. Dia bawak round class and certain part kat area situ je. Tak nak tunjuk semua and when I request to go to other part dia cakap lebih kurang sama je semua. Ok fine. Then bila nak balik, my last tricky question to her.

"Tadi masa nak naik I press bell and wait around 15 mins tunggu u bukak pintu. Let say I nak spotcheck this kindy during working hours, mcm mana I nak masuk? And kena tunggu lama. And dlm tempoh 15mins tu macam-macam boleh berlaku".

And she replied, "Tak payah spotcheck Puan. Sini semua ok. Takde masalah so far".

Yeah, so far mmg takde masalah. But as a parents I think nak spotcheck sekali sekala tak salah kot. Ni bukan sekolah rendah atau menengah. Yang tu lain citer. Ni kisah nak hantar my 4 years old dotter yg tak tahu apa-apa and as a parents sikit sebanyak my first experience ni mesti rasa resah gelisah. It's normal lah!

Lepas tu we surveyed at Genius Aulad. The nearest to us is at Bandar Sri Damansara. Tak jauh around 10 mins je. But nak pergi sana early in the morning, jalan yang we all akan lalu akan jammed teruk during morning hours. So, I'm not going to stuck lama-lama atau kena keluar awal sebab jammed. Buang masa so tak bolehla nak send her to GA. Eventhough dekat area Sri Damansara ada banyak kindy yg best and other Islamic Montessori kindy tapi a bit leceh nak redah jam. So, tak dapatlah nak pergi area situ even dekat.

And my last choice yang dalam list was Smart Reader Taman Bidara Selayang. Around 10mins je from my house jugak. No jammed. No hassle. Nak hantar senang. Nak pick up senang. But still shoplot. No choice. A founder is chinese but with Malay principal. Ni yang I cari so that senang interms of food and background culture. Ada kelas Fardhu Ain. Mula-mula worried sebab I dengar SR ni exam oriented kindy. Ada homework la bagai. But during discussion dengan teacher tu dia ckp no homework which is memang no-no for me. Yes exam oriented but takde nak push the kids belajar mcm nak mati sebab they are still young. 4 tahun. Ada smart bacaan, smart reader, math, science, fardhu ain, art, computer and beberapa subjek lagi and yang paling interesting every Friday ada kindy cooking class. Interesting! Ada concert every year which I saw sume comel-comel and okla to introduce Qaira. Hopefully Qaira sukalah.

So far bila pegi sini dah dua kali Qaira tak nak balik. Maybe a good sign. I nak dia datang and main-main sambil belajar and not belajar sambil main-main. Which I dah tekankan to her teacher about this. Maybe boleh serius masa 5 tahun nanti but not in 4 years class. And to SR Tmn Bidara teacher, if u read this, please ya. Jangan hampakan harapan I, a mom to 4 years old little girl yang baru nak masuk and kenal alam kindy. I give full harapan to all of you to take care my kid. And I rasa mcm tu jugak with other parents. Enough said. So, let's kindy! Yeay... Let's start with Bismillah.

till now,
xoxo




Qaira's first suitcase
Friday, October 12, 2012

Hiks, sila jgn bosan. I've decided to make my blog ni as really really diary for Qaira and adik-adik dia akan datang. Rasa rugi kalau tak update sebab now ni nak cuci gambar memang jarang. Kan?

Last week we went to Langkawi. Actually this trip ni nak buat as Qaira's first flight experience. Sebab asyik tertangguh dr umur dia setahun. Now, baru ada masa sesuai. Qaira, sila blame Abah ok. Hihi..

And to complete her full REALLY journey, we bought her a cute suitcase called Trunkie. Comelness.

And guess what? I rasa this suitcase memang berbaloi beli as she enjoyed the suitcase sbb boleh ride on. And kebetulan terminal jauh kena jalan Qaira suruh I tarik je sebab we all tak bawa stroller. It's fun!

Below pic taken by Qaira herself.

Introducing Qaira's first suitcase ;)








Hello, me and my suitcase!

Till now,
xoxo

Qaira's 3rd Birthday Party in Pa&Ma's magazine
Thursday, October 11, 2012

Hi,

Qaira's 3rd birthday in Pa&Ma's magazine in latest October issue tau.






Ok, yang ni sepatah dua kata berkata-kata from me. Sila jgn gelak. Latest themed party terpaksa cakap Upin Ipin, Angry Bird bagai.. cakap lebih takut orang tak faham. Ngeee ;)

Ok, go and get it the latest issue ya.

till now,
xoxo

Qaira's 3rd birthday party - Decor decor decor
Tuesday, August 28, 2012


 Hi all,

Yes i know.. Org lain upload gambar raya..i upload gambar party Qaira. Better upload than never. Sweet memories for Qaira.

I've prepared everything by my own. Semua ya.. semua sekali. I'm the one yg pilih theme, color theme, the outfit, personalised everything sendiri... design by my own.. semua ok.. apa yg u all tengok, semua i buat sendiri and of course with help of husband and my sis and bro in law. So, seperti 1st party Qaira and her aqiqah, I mintak sgt those yang nak cilok idea and ambil all the design and tiru, I tak kisah... but plz plz credit to me ya at least ;) Penat yours truly pikir idea itu ini then sesenang org lain ambil copy and paste kat birthday anak sendiri and yang paling menyayat hati YG BUAT BISNES pakai design I.. huhu.. boleh je nak tunjuk. Tapi takpe. Pendam dlm hati. Hihi..

So, enough talking..gambar semua ni only the decor. Later i buat entry for her party. But, no pic on welcome board la! Rugi! So here we go...


 Photobooth signage.. again no photo on photobooth props! Rugi jugak.. haha



 Photobooth backdrop using colorful paper wheel. Credit to my sis


 Preparing the kids table! I only have 40 mins to setup everything. Nanti citer about this!


 Besides ribbon, I decided to use kain polkadot utk ceriakan kerusi for kids ni. Something different ;)


 Kids table decor


With handmade and custom centerpieces


 Credit again to my sis. Dia yang siapkan all those centerpieces. Lukis sendiri owl and number 3. Terlebih rajin... Tq dik.. nanti ko peralatkan la aku utk birthday Anya plak ok!


 Setup decor


 Another centerpieces





 Cute kan? I wrap the mini air kotak to have the mood to personalised everything..haha.. (mesti nak tiru kan? kan? hahahaha)


 This party hat by Jaja fr howaboutparty. Tq Jaja sebab sponsor this party hat! Yg ni bukan I buat ok! haha..


 Signage for dessert buffet


 Birthday banner half done sebab tak sempat. So mcm ni la jadinya. Was thinking to put a huge ribbon kiri kanan tu tapi tak sempat! Blame the Jkids! Hihi


 A cute ruffles birthday cake by born2bake. Idea by me and Shafinaz make it dream comes true. I love the ruffles idea so much. Berkat dok google design kek. I end up buat kek yang bukan 'owl' sangat. Boring klu themed Elmo kek Elmo. Theme Angry bird kek muka Angry bird.. haha.. so i love this so much! And the birthday cake banner done by me ;)


 Personalised chocolate bar


 Personalised sparkling juice ;)


 And personalised oreo chocolate! And of course the design fr us lah!


Mama buat giant cookies ni sendiri ok Qaira.. siap import pink M&M's from US. haha


 Personalised mini bottles ;)


 Another things yg I suka. I give the design and born2bake membuatnya dengan jaya! Recommended!


 Drooling and yummy pavlova fr born2bake


 Personalised chocolate chunky


 An owl cakepops! Again I love born2bake sebab apa yg I nak dia buat dengan jayanya!


 
 Qaira;s mini dessert buffet. Simple and not too much decor.



 Food table ;)


 Other decor


 A love note for Qaira ;)

Okla, later sambung ya! Till now

xoxo

Design, printing and idea by Merisik Gallery






Aksi Diva Qaira Jasmine
Thursday, October 20, 2011

Sejak Damia takde, sikap Qaira kadang-kadang moody jer. Entahlah.. maybe dulu orang asyik panggil dia kakak jer.. and selalu sebut pasal adik.. but suddenly semua org dah tak cakap pasal adik langsung. Until now, she keep asking about her sister. And we all selalu cakap, "Adik kat syurga..".

And sekarang dia dah pandai... bila dia tanya, "Mama, where is adik?". Then dia juga yang jawab sendiri, "Adik, syurga eyhhh?". Sambil tadah tangan pastu mulut terkumat kamit then dia Aminnnn kan doa dia.. Hihihi.. Good girl Qaira. No need to sedih-sedih ok.. Adik will remain waiting us at Jannah.. Adik pun tengah happy2 sekarang. And nanti, insyaallah, Qaira akan  jadi kakak jugak.. tapi later ok... ;)

About Damia, siapalah yang tak sedih bila anak yang kita kandungkan selama 9 bulan, tiba waktu yang dinantikan, dia tak dapat bersama kita. But, here something to share with those yang alami nasib yang sama with me.

Sabda Rasullulah saw yang bermaksud : " Ketika aku mikraj ke langit, tiba-tiba aku mendengar suara kanak-kanak. Aku bertanya : " Wahai Jibril, siapakah mereka itu?" Jibril menjawab : Mereka adalah anak cucu orang Islam yang meninggal dunia sebelum baligh. Mereka itu di asuh oleh Nabi Ibrahim as sampai orang tuanya datang." (HR. Abu Daud)

Then, after all I tak perlulah sedih lagi. Bukan ke dah terbukti Nabi Ibrahim A.S yang menjaga Damia sekarang. I rasa berjuta-juta kali baik Nabi Ibrahim yang jaga. I redha. And Damia akan tunggu Mama, Abah and kakak kan?

Apabila kita mengingati Tuhan, maka Tuhan juga akan mengingati kita.
Apabila Tuhan mengingati kita, maka Tuhan akan menguji kita.Terima Kasih Allah kerana memilih aku..kerana memilih Damia untuk menunggu aku di sana.. 

So, why should I nangis mcm org giler, kalau dah sah-sah ini yang terbaik untuk I kan?  I smiled :)

Untuk Damia anak Mama, every moment of having u in me was great.. and you will be forever mine.. ;)

Enough with Damia... and anak sulung I sekarang, tengoklah aksi dia.. mcm diva ok.. menyombong tak tentu pasal.. especially bila org nak snap pic, mesti nak buat ala-ala gaya menyombong dia tue...


Tengoklah... muka tak boleh blah... ikut mood dia jer...



Gambar ni, a week before adik dia lahir.. still nak menyombong...tapi dengan pacifier dia.. haish.. dh 2 years old, but still on pacifier.. ni skrg husband and I tengah cari jalan nak elakkan dia dengan pacifier.. any tips guys??



Well, kadang-kadang kesian tengok Qaira.. waiting for her sister selama 9 bulan, tapi akhirnya takde sape teman dia main... luckily, Anya is here.. tempat gaduh, tempat bermanja.. semualah... hari-hari jumpa, hari-hari gaduh...hihihi...tunggu Anya besar sikit dah boleh jalan, mesti jadi kawan baik... hehehe..

Qaira and Anya

Ok, till now
xoxo

Today, SHE hit 2!
Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Dear my little jr Qaira Jasmine,

Happy Birthday Sayang... today, u hit 2! Cepat betul masa berlalu... Tahu-tahu Qaira dah 2 tahun...


Anak Mama,

Just a few weeks from now, Qaira nak jadi kakak dah.. Mama n Abah harap u can behave like kakak ok... no more notty2.. you're the one who will take care ur sis nanti... u're so smart and I know anak Mama seorang yang penyayang even garang! hihi

Ok, nanti bila Mama takde (when it times to deliver ur adik), please behave and stay with Abah ok.. no more crying even Mama know that u cannot sleep without Mama nanti... hope it will take 2-3 days in the hospital.. Then, Mama will bring back your sister..insyaAllah....

Qaira Jasmine,

Even it only takes around 3-4 months rezeki Qaira minum susu Mama, but we still close each other..kan? Because I still carried you for the whole 9 months and we talked with each other since that..until today... Alhamdulillah... and since you 9 months young, Mama the one who take care for you for 24 hours a day.. no skip on morning and evening shower.. breakfast, lunch, dinner, semua Mama yg suapkan.. no one involve since I have full time to feed you bila Mama dah resign from my job. It's a blessed to have this opportunity because u should know not every mommies in this world get a chance to take care their child for 24 hours a day due to carik sesuap nasik for the family... I think Allah dah tulis semua ni untuk Qaira... so u should be thankful to Allah..

Dan dalam masa 2 tahun Qaira bersama Mama and Abah, tak sikit pun Mama rasa susah menjaga and mendidik Qaira..sakit, makan Qaira semua Mama & Abah hadapi tanpa rungutan.. and i hope satu hari nanti bila Mama and Abah dah tua, Qaira tak lupa ni semua...

Akhir kata, semoga hidupmu dirahmati Allah... Amin.

Salam Sayang,
Mama & Abah
6 Julai 2011

She almost 2..how time flies.. i missed her so badly!
Monday, June 20, 2011

Hye


Yup true... I've been very super duper busy with workload!!! And sedar tak sedar my pregnancy dah almost 8 months and my super darlink little dotter dah nak hit 2! Huhu.. just imagine.. how time flies... And i missed my little Qaira so badly! Being a pregnant mom for our 2nd children nie, my feelings dah bercampur baur.. I just cannot imagine, camna nak sayang 2 org in one time? Hahaha.. Ok fine, anak tak keluar lagi..and tak pernah jadi ibu kepada 2 org anak.. so, it's a normal feeling lah!


And.... lately asyik tengok gambar Qaira dr dia kecik till now... cepatnya masa berlalu!!!


Newborn petite Qaira... she is 2.8kg jer... 


1 month young!


2 months young!


3 months young!


4 months young!


5 months young!


6 months young!


7 months young!


8 months young!


10 months young!


11 months young!


She hit 1 year old!


And today...............................


She almost 2! Dah besar anak dara sorang nih!


And my 2nd baby bump belly what so ever! This time, baby lagi besar dr Qaira! haha.. And I;m so ketegangan perut and tak larat! But still busy working lah!



My latest job... sume org kata... perut dah besar pun still keja lagi ker... takpe people.. i'm the boss.. arah sana sini jer... hahaha!

Ok, my EDD is on 3rd August.. insyaAllah... please pray for me and tak tahulah bila ada kelapangan nak update blog lagi as I'm busy with workload every weekend sampailah puasa nanti! Well, after all, I just can't wait with so many things in my  life... Satunya, anak sorang pengarang jantung dah nak masuk 2 tahun. Second, tunggu kelahiran anak kedua ni mmg tak sabar! Third, my marriage will turn 3 on July! Forth, I'm rebranding my business... tunggu je nanti.. new look from MG!


And last but not least, I;m very happy with my life now!

Till now,
xoxo