Shopping for my Wedding
Sunday, January 20, 2008

Yea Yea.. I can't wait to do my shopping.. Heheh, to fulfil all my shopping list for my wedding ..Basically, I'm going to Jakarta & Bandung!
And here's some of my shopping list yg mesti di beli di Jakarta & Bandung:
  • Invitation Card - I need to have the hardcover for my wedding card
  • Guest gifts - Need to find something unique and of course within my budget!
  • Lace - Uhh..xsabarnya nak shopping lace byk2
  • Wedding Outfit for reception at my house

Going to 26!!!!?
Saturday, January 19, 2008

O guwd! Masa berjalan begitu pantas and I feel just like yesterday meninggalkan alam persekolahan.. That time, I was 17 still wearing baju kurung putih with light blue kain.. And my Soulmate x habis2 menyakat & menyakat dan xpuas hati sbb xdpt saya lagi to become his gf..hahaha..
Then, going to 18, 19 (University's time and masa nie dah declare lah kan as Inchek Soulmate's gf)... Move to 20, 21, 22, 23, 24 and now.. 25..Arghhh..and this year, I am 26 already? Mmm..tuanya!!! Dan bila di fikirkan semula, hanya tggal 4 tahun saje lagi to stay in 20's then I will be in 30's era..!!! Dan yg paling x sangka, this year also I will become Inchek Soulmate's wife? Cepatnya masa berlalu... rasanya dulu masih hingusan lagi.. and maybe around 2,3 years akan dtg, saya dah jadi Ibu pulak ke? Dan juga bila melihat sekeliling, most of my frens dah kawin dan dah ada anak 1, 2? Mmmm.. yes, masa berjalan begitu pantas.. and now, I'm counting my self to...26!!!

Budget, Budget, O, Budget!
Wednesday, January 16, 2008


Huh, a lot of things that I need to think during the preparation especially my budget.. well, after calculate the DIY things, yup, i can save a lot.. O ya.. for the DIY preparation, I think the hantaran decoration should be included in the list.. Total savings : Another RM1,000 for 9 hantaran..heheh..


Ok, berbalik isu budget..the things yg paling besar n the most imporant budget that we need to include in the list is : BUDGET for the caterer..Well, me n Inchek Soulmate telah berpenat lelah mencari catering which can cater for our guest around 550 pax for the reception at dewan n around 300 pax for the solemnization.. And the results are:


For the reception ceremony, the guest akan makan serentak..so the best choice ialah hidangan dome rather than buffet..To cater 550 guest with dome set , weee..it's a lot of $$$ involved.. the lowest we can get including the table + banquet chair & chair cover is RM30 per pax..and the highest price is RM60 per pax..!!! (If RM60 per pax, baik haku bt kat dewan perdana felda..wing wing***) We goes for Nasi Tomato for the menu instead of Nasi Minyak n Beriani.. Including the lauk pauk, desert, minuman, coffee / tea n bla bla bla...
Quotation result = RM XX,XXX.XX (for 550 pax)


Because the Ringgit Malaysia is still within our budget, so we agreed to book the caterer.
Then, for the Reception di rumah, I should said that I need to build the pelamin at the canopy.. nowadays, i saw ppl choose to make their pelamin outside rather than inside.. as u know, my house takla besar mana kan.. so, the result = PELAMIN should be outside - at the canopy.


Wokey, at Reception event dirumah, we only should cater for 300 guests. It is including neighbours, close friends and close relatives. So, memandangkan ia di malam hari, the possiblities that semua org akan dtg selepas menunaikan solat maghrib, adalah serentak. So, we should have 6 canopies (1 canopy dah sah2 utk pelamin). It is bcoz, my advice, if those out there nak buat majlis mlm hari (buffet), let say the crowd are around 1000 pax, u need to have at least 12 canopies ya.. plzzz... dun go fo 7 canopies.. it is not enough!! Dun make ur guest waiting to have their dinner! Heheh..Tapi kalau siang hari, it ok to have 6-7 canopies.. sbb masanya lebih panjang..


Ok, then my dream to have the arabian canopies (yg sgt hot ketika ini), + scallop + butterfly scallop di tiang canopy + underlayer and chandelier for all the canopies (not only for the pengantin canopy), the price that I need to pay = RM850 for each canopy X 6 = RM5100 (fuhhh..lagi mahal dr sewa dewan). Uwaaaaa... and the canopy hanya utk meraikan 300 tetamu.. Berbaloi ker?

Kalau kaya raya, baloi la kot..heheh.. anyway, i'm still doing my calculation..


**Pic fr CT Catering

Oh 2008, here I come!
Tuesday, January 1, 2008

2008 is just around the corner.. While I'm writing in this blog, it's almost 7 hours left to 2008..
Mmm, well..in 2007, byk memories baik yg gembira, sedih, suka dan duka.. Things happened in 2007 yg menggembirakan hati ialah:

1- I've graduated!
2- Manage to build my business succesfully.. Revenue of the year, 5 angka! (good income for small business)
3- Get hired by 3 giant company / organization!
4- Last year for stay single!
When 2008 is coming, i'm planning to:
1- Get promotion! No matter how..ekekek..
2- Expand my business!
3- Ready to become a wife for my Soulmate!
4- Yearly income for my own business + penyata gaji tahunan at my organization = Should be 6 angka for 2008!
Mmm, yg lain still on planning.. but, all these are for sure.. Insyaallah..Amin.

Self preparation toward marriage
Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Lately I was so busy with my work. Keja, keja n keja till that day I off duty for 2 days. Soulmate and I went to lepaks2 di Old Town White Coffee yg berhampiran dengan umah (as this is our lepak venue for all the time bila bosan2).
Asyik bercerita about our wedding, suddenly dia bersuara lebih kurang mcm nie bunyinya.

S : Asyik cite pasal kawin, awak dah bersedia ke?
Me : Bersedia apa?
S : Self preparation toward marriage.
Me : (Bulp!)
S : Hidup suami isteri tak sama dengan yg mcm sekarang.
Me : Ya, I know.
S : Nanti bila dah jd suami isteri, awak kena taat ckp suami, bla bla bla and bla....

After that, I just realized, Soulmate sungguh menyentuh hati. He mentioned about the duty as husband and wife. Waaa..sungguh jauh pemikiran Soulmate...Ya, I mean, b4 nie mmg la aku dah bersedia nak jadi isteri... but Soulmate think lebih dari jadi suami isteri...About our future and bla bla... dan membuatkan aku lebih yakin dengan pilihan sendiri... ekekeke....

Well, I realized that.. this things adalah perkara yg sgt penting that every future bride n groom mesti fikirkan. Bukan baju yg beribu, bukan pelamin yg indah yg menjamin hidup kita, ada lagi perkara lain yg penting yg selalu kita lupa! Terutama sebagai wanita, it's really hard to carry the title of 'ISTERI' if we're not ready.

For me, siapkan pemikiran, tetapkan hati, teguhkan iman, let us discuss the issue of Self Preparation Toward Marriage' with your soulmate!

Susah Hatilah Saya
Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Aha, I was so susah hati when thinking about relationship. Another 6 months to go, I hope nothings happen during our preparation.
Well, I have 3 best friends dari sekolah rendah till now. They are Ms.Y, Ms.R and Ms.H. What I heard about them when we went to gedix2 that day, Ms.H telah putus hubungan yang telah terjalin selama 7 tahun! Yes, 7 tahun..when we still at form 5! Ok, that's the story. I feel so sad about her..
I just cannot imagine after 7 years relationship, hubungan boleh putus mcm tu saje..Yela, me and Soulmate juga berjumpa masa tingkatan 5. At that time, he has his gf.. but, suddenly tiba2 jatuh chenta pandang ke 16. Ahahaha... Ms.H and me, build the relationship masing2 pada tahun yg sama.. We're school mate for four of us!
Ok, sila tetapkan pendirian masing2... Make it like this. When something happen to our relationship, sila jgn marah2. Terapikan diri dengan mengingatkan diri sendiri dan kawal perasaan. Sbb when we upset, kita lupa yg sebenarnya kita pernah jatuh chenta dengan dia!

Wedding theme color
Monday, November 5, 2007



Dulu2..masa tgk all my fren yg kawin dulu dr myself, I was thinking the pink color was sooo sweetttt... (I cannot hide myself dr jatuh chenta dgn color pink wokeh)!


But, ramai sgt org pilih color pink as their wedding theme... purple is so..~blah~, light green is nice but not into me.., blue is too soft..gold is outdated..eeyakkss...Red is nice but when the dress is in red, mahu pengsan warna2 meriah ala chinese new year!


Setelah aku pikir and pikir and pikir, so, I choose white and red roses for my wedding theme at dewan. I can imagine that my outfit will look so pure with white color and the pelamin and decoration dlm dewan will full with red roses! Yes, this is final!


Then, for the akad nikah, I choose colorful theme...baju with colorful beaded, colorful roses..weee..so nice lah!


And for the reception dekat rumah, hehehe..still cannot avoid with pink...so, I choose pink and Soulmate said combine the pink color with black! Yup, it's black! So, pink and black will be my wedding theme color for the reception dekat rumah. Yeeehaaaa... I like lol!

Searching for my designer
Friday, November 2, 2007

Ok, here's the story.
I'm not the type to have something which comes in package. As you know nowadays, mcm2 package pengantin yg kita boleh dapat.. You know why? When it comes with package, sometimes, not all things yg ada dlm package tue, memenuhi citarasa... Mcm situation nak booked dewan hari tue...

So, yesterday me and Soulmate went to Man Kajang for our wedding outfit. Since Soulmate's sister, his cousin, my cousin always go for him. So, aku ikut jer.. tapi mmg aku realize la his dress mmg cantik..

Arrived at his boutique, a lil small discussion, here and there... so, we manage to have him for design our outfit utk akad nikah and reception di dewan. ~Weeeee!~

The price of sepasang baju akad nikah L/P dan sepasang baju reception with french lace and chiffon - cost us around RM five thousand plus plus. Gosh!

Finding a photographer
Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Semalam was so happy coz belum apa2 lagi, I've found a perfect photographer which suit all my needs.. Coz, I'm a lil bit fussy about my wedding album to be!

I've tried to surf at FP since there a lot of photographers over there yg boleh dijadikan pilihan.. During my engagement, I hired Digital Syndicate. They are great! But, I just want to change the touch for my wedding album.. saje tukar angin pula..so, searching, searching thru 1 fp to another fp, and 1 magz to another magz, finally I've found one!

Yesterday, we went to their gallery. So, would like to announce, our official photographer for the wedding is belong to CANDID SYNDROME.

They are talented, nice art, nice package too! Dan yang paling penting, it suits Soulmate's and myself interest and of course our pocket too!

Neway, wedding photographs is about capturing bride & groom happiness and the beautiful wedding. Weird angle, excessive photoshop-ing and tacky wordings is so ~blah~ :p

Ohhh.. I just so hated the shots where it featured the bride+groom as a magazine cover... Hahaha... It's so 90's la! Don't u ever!

Wish List - Part 1


I dream to have this for the wedding shoe.. It's from Stuart Weitzman.
Which will cost me around RM1000++!!!
Erghhh..


Planning started!!
Saturday, October 27, 2007

9 months to go! Now, the time to hunter for the :

  1. Caterer
  2. Wedding Hall
  3. Wedding Outfit
  4. Music
  5. MC for the event
  6. Photographer
  7. Videographer
  8. Cake!

Ok, Soulmate's and I, dah discuss dah we want to combine our wedding reception which means the wedding will be held sekali sahaja.. No need Majlis Bertandang etc, since me and him are neighbours.. so, nnt nak panggil jiran yg sama juga except his mother friends and my dad friends.

Whee...i love the ideas.. saving and menguntungkan! So, we're try harder to find suitable hall for the reception memandangkan hanya nak buat sekali shj.. We went to :

  1. Dewan Perdana Felda - This place is really exclusive. They offered a package wedding from RM55++ per person if I'm not mistaken. It sounds 'still in the budget' for us but when I saw the pelamin and decoration which comes with the package, eeyukkss.. i don't like it! Soulmate's said, it's ok..we will hire someone for the pelamin.. But for me, it waisting.. Why should I pay for other things yg dah ada dlm package then I need to pay for lagi utk pelamin yg lain.. Unless aku nie kaya raya.. So, Soulmate's kecewa...Sorry syg.. It waste!
  2. Dewan Tun Rahah - The same things happen ! So.. REJECTED!
  3. Dewan Cattleya - I love this place so much but fiance said "Jauh sgt dr rumah kita". So, it's time for me plak rasa kecewa...
  4. After all, we choose dewan yg sgt sederhana which both of us, sekali pandang terus sama2 agree... So, here's the place. Tunggu till my wedding ya!

Right time to settle down
Thursday, October 25, 2007

Once bila I planned the engagement, Soulmate x berapa agree since we're both still young and just finished the study.. But, I still remember the situation at the hospital when my mom has been warded at end of 2005, he said to my mom that he will marry me one day!

I still remember the situation.. My mom smile but she said "Nanti ayah tak bagi..still young.."
Hehehe..

But after all, one year after pemergian Mama, we've decided to engage..at least, after 6 years relationship on that time, dapatlah mengurangkan kata2 neighbours yg asyik tanya bila nak kawin?

Then, today..after I've been Soulmate's fiance, I've already decided the date for my wedding..

Yes, now..it is the right time to settle down!

My Engagement Day
Friday, November 24, 2006








After 6 years of relationship dr akhir2 sekolah menengah, then further studies to university, on 19th November 2006, I'm engaged with my dear, Shahril!

Photographer : Digital Syndicate
Gubahan Hantaran : Merisik Gallery





My New Life is Coming!
Thursday, June 29, 2006




My new life is coming...Just around the corner...

My previous time are full with memories...I have faced a lot of challenges from Allah..Hope I can survive and can face a lot of difficulties in my coming future..Without my mother..Without her do'a and prayer for me and also for my lovely sister & brother..But I realize, there's so many people who still care about me...What is past is past...Now, my mother is belong to Allah...I should be proud that she's the one who are very lucky because Allah love her more than us... and I would like her to know that I've graduated mcm yg Mama mahukan...

My new life is coming...Just around the corner...

I will definitely become a new person...from a girl to women...to have a lot of responsibilities that I need to face...Perhaps my experience can make me become a new person...
Deep inside my heart, I know Allah is the best who knows everything..Just to Allah, I pray that You can take care my sister and brother...if anything happen to me...
Alhamdulillah...I've succeed...I've graduated..even during the exam, Dr said yg Mama takkan bertahan lama...but I managed to do the exam..walaupun dlm fikiran melayang2 fikir keadaan Mama yg bila2 saja akan pergi...
Hope Mama tenang di sana...That's for sure. Al-Fatihah. Amin